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Old 04-27-2008, 02:34 PM   #1
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Thought I'd dig this up.

I didn't make a big deal out of it (I hope) but I went speed dating last week.
There were no men that I clicked with, but I did come away with the mobile number of the lady who was sat next to me - thanks to there being almost double the amount of women to men we were able to chat for a while.

We agreed to go out next week, but today in a Sunday magazine I read an article on a club night called Big Girls' Paradise which is held in London once a month. It's next weekend.

I am going to try to persuade her to come to this with me. She is larger than me, so I hope she won't be offended, but it seems ideal. I love to dance - I mean really love to dance - and haven't been to a place that plays mainstream music where I can really let go in ages. I know she is looking for love, but I am really just up for a good time - no euphemism intended. For her, there might be men there who are interested. For me there should be good music, dancing and not feeling out of place.

I have ordered a corset from eBay. Here's hoping it looks good and she agrees. I might go alone otherwise.

I'm back to trying to meet people, can you tell?
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Old 04-28-2008, 03:02 PM   #2
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Yay SG! Hope you have a fab time! I expect the Cellar guys'll want a picture of you in the corset, eh ?!
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Old 04-28-2008, 03:20 PM   #3
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Yay SG! Hope you have a fab time! I expect the Cellar guys'll want a picture of you in the corset, eh ?!
Or out of it. Whatever works.
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Old 04-29-2008, 07:49 AM   #4
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I have always wanted to get a corset. I found this great website that looks like it has great ones, but a little expensive. www.absolutecorsets.com I want the over the bust kind so that I can wear it like clothes
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Old 04-29-2008, 08:42 AM   #5
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Helps groups of people with shared interests plan meetings and form offline clubs in local communities around the world.
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Old 04-29-2008, 09:38 AM   #6
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This is it (images from eBay - this is not me!)
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Old 05-03-2008, 08:04 PM   #7
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This is it (images from eBay - this is not me!)
My breasts would fall out of that. that's not good is it
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Old 05-03-2008, 09:13 PM   #8
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For you, maybe not. For us, woo hoo.
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Old 04-29-2008, 09:49 AM   #9
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And thanks for the link Classic - that's a great idea!
I wish I could search by postcode though.

Oh, just remembered I have my own laptop now!
I can go through all the meetings at my leisure tonight...
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Old 04-29-2008, 10:20 AM   #10
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That's gorgeous, Sundae!

Now I want one.
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Old 04-29-2008, 10:49 AM   #11
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I Love that corset SG! That is the kind of style that I want!
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Old 04-30-2008, 10:34 PM   #12
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you can search by zipcode, same as postcode methinks
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Old 05-01-2008, 03:00 AM   #13
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No - we don't get an option for that
London is London acording to Meetup
Still, I've already joined one group and have my eye on another

In other, sadder news - it's highly unlikely I will get my corset in time now
The Magic 8 Ball was right apparently
Am frantically going through what I could possibly wear instead
Nothing that fills me with such glee I'm afraid
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Old 05-01-2008, 09:08 AM   #14
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if you can't afford that, you can always get one of these: corset necklaces

disclaimer: that's beautiful Daughter No. 1's website.
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Old 05-03-2008, 05:02 AM   #15
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Lovely work there Cloud!

Okay, not only do I have my corset
But I decided to check out Craig's List as well

I know, I know - but it's a way of meeting people
Have already contacted someone who will be in London in a few weeks
Just a dinner and chat thing
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