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View Poll Results: waht do you do when confronted by a beggar?
Ignore them. Never give to them. fuck em. get a job 7 14.58%
I give pocket change if I'm feeling weak, and regret it. 3 6.25%
It depends on the beggar, mainly 17 35.42%
I follow my whims 16 33.33%
I try to give enough to make them smile 3 6.25%
I give non cash items like food, clothing or beer 8 16.67%
I dig deep 0 0%
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Old 11-14-2008, 08:33 PM   #1
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Old 11-22-2008, 04:50 PM   #2
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I'm a cold-hearted bastard and never give anything to bums.

I once gave a Sunday paper to a bum in Philly, told him to read it to refresh himself on the world and then turn to the Help Wanted section and get a job.

The reason I have money and they don't is that I have a job, work hard and honestly and do not give my hard-earned cash away.

He threw it at me and cussed at me. Ingrate.

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Old 11-22-2008, 04:57 PM   #3
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once I give it to them it's theirs. I'm not judging them or trying to change their lives and I think putting conditions on a gift is fucked up.
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I'm a cold-hearted bastard and never give anything to bums.

I once gave a Sunday paper to a bum in Philly, told him to read it to refresh himself on the world and then turn to the Help Wanted section and get a job.

The reason I have money and they don't is that I have a job, work hard and honestly and do not give my hard-earned cash away.

He threw it at me and cussed at me. Ingrate.

Give a man a fish and he eats for a day...teach him to fish and he eats forever.
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Old 11-23-2008, 01:43 PM   #4
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I once gave a Sunday paper to a bum in Philly, told him to read it to refresh himself on the world and then turn to the Help Wanted section and get a job..
Perhaps he couldn't read? Was severly dyslexic or had cataracts?
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Old 11-23-2008, 01:44 PM   #5
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Perhaps he couldn't read? Was severly dyslexic or had cataracts?
Or drunk. Don't forget drunk.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:33 PM   #6
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Perhaps he couldn't read? Was severly dyslexic or had cataracts?
Doubt it. Eyes worked fine, and though I don't know if he could read, it's a good bet. And he wasn't drunk or in need of one, either. He had a nervous tic of rubbing his left forearm with his right hand and he gave the impression of needing a fix more. I felt a lot of anxiety from him, and some anger (before me). Probably a mental patient released from one of several institutions when they were closed in the Philadelphia area. Off meds, likely. Or a junkie not too far gone for me to spot easily.

Either way, not worthy of my money.
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Old 11-22-2008, 06:55 PM   #7
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Old 11-22-2008, 07:00 PM   #8
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It's interesting how many people wouldn't give a person in need a freakin' dollar, but seem to support the concept of wealth redistribution in the politics threads...




It's mine, I worked for it, they might not really need it, they might spend it on things I don't approve of etc etc...
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Old 11-22-2008, 07:11 PM   #9
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it is? only 6 people voted for give them nothing......
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Old 11-27-2008, 03:28 AM   #10
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it is? only 6 people voted for give them nothing......
Ah, but it's 7 of us cold-hearted bastids now.

However, if one voted that it depends, or one follows their whims, then it seems to me there are some judgmental shenanigans going on somewhere in there, aren't there? Hmmmmmm??
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Old 11-22-2008, 07:15 PM   #11
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Yes, it is.
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Old 11-22-2008, 11:57 PM   #12
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Yes, it is.


OK, so name names! Who's a fucking hyporite?
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Old 11-22-2008, 07:38 PM   #13
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Better a beggar than a big booger. Yes I came up with that myself...Thanks folks I'll be here all night.
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Old 11-23-2008, 08:02 AM   #14
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I hate that word 'bum' it makes the person you're talking about sound worthless, dehumanised.

I also have some sympathy for the guy who flung back the newspaper: after all, life's bad enough if you've nothing without being patronised and condescended to by someone who is doing fine.
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Old 11-23-2008, 08:15 AM   #15
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That's exactly what it means.
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Quick definitions (bum)

▸ noun: a disreputable vagrant ("He tried to help the really down-and-out bums")
▸ noun: person who does no work ("A lazy bum")
▸ noun: the fleshy part of the human body that you sit on
▸ noun: a person who is deemed to be despicable or contemptible ("Throw the bum out")
▸ verb: be lazy or idle ("Her son is just bumming around all day")
▸ verb: ask for and get free; be a parasite
▸ adjective: of very poor quality
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