What does THIS mean? :( - Page 9

Trilby · 05-02-2006, 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrnoodle

Aren't you tired of the pain yet? We're all rooting for you, don't let us down

That whole post was brilliant, noodle, and I know you guys are rooting (helps me soooo much) and i won't let you down.

This is sort of funny, though. OF COURSE he emailed me back. It was a three paragraph dissertation on MORE fabulous things he is going to do and he told me he was staying until July 7th which is the absolute latest he can stay, sooooo--I surmise that his fuck-buddies are working out very, very well. Anyway, the funny part is that I have literally NOTHING to say to his email. Unless you all think I should mention that I went to a High School production of the Music Man over the weekend!

That's MY high-point! And you are sooo right when you tell me that his perverse pleasure at stringing me along would make me sick if I contemplated it. He never asks about ME. It's always, always him, him, him.

I'm a sick girl and I know it.

xoxoxoBruce · 05-02-2006, 05:14 PM

Do I have to say it......Nope, you know.

zippyt · 05-02-2006, 09:54 PM

Bre PLEASE send Cyclefrance his address so he can send a few toughs over there to beat this fool with some wilted onions !!!

mrnoodle · 05-03-2006, 09:28 AM

Good morning, time for your daily reality check.

He didn't miss you last night. He didn't even think about you.

Carry on.

Trilby · 05-03-2006, 09:30 AM

Oh, I know, I know...I've been licking my wounds all night--and, this morning. I don't know who I hate more-him or me. The urge to fuck up his life is raising it's ugly head. I want to call him and tell him off. Not that he'd care.

mrnoodle · 05-03-2006, 10:02 AM

Dude. get over it. You can't fuck up his life. There's nothing you could do that would remotely affect him one way or the other (there's assault and murder, but that's counterproductive). Make him as much of a non-entity in your mind as you are in his. Rejoin humanity and stop wallowing in dog shit.

You're afraid of feeling nothing, aren't you? Well, you're going to have to, at least for awhile. Suck it up, do it. End of story.

I'm quickly running out of empathy here. How many times can someone walk up to you and say "Look, I hit myself in the head with a hammer" and you stop feeling sorry for them?

end. it.

Stormieweather · 05-03-2006, 11:05 AM

I don't know you Brianna (nice name

, it is also my daughter's), so I can't address your situation directly, but I do know about not-so-healthy relationships.

Having toxic people in your life will make you sick (mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically). You can also get addicted to the roller coaster of extremes that a relationship with a toxic person often involves. But seriously, the nice, gentle ups and downs of a healthy relationship are SO much better than the wild ride that comes with toxic people. It takes some getting used to, the lack of drama...but it makes for a much happier life, overall.

Oh, and those toxic people are taking up space in our lives that decent people could be filling. Get them out! Let them sucker some other poor soul.

Stormie
<who got off the roller coaster a while back>

wolf · 05-03-2006, 01:05 PM

I think the time has come to start teaching your spam catcher to put all of his messages in the trash.

thrillhouse · 05-03-2006, 01:15 PM

nope.

do what i did. . . . . BLOCK his email address from yours. do.it.now.

Rock Steady · 05-03-2006, 03:03 PM

Yes. Block/Spamize his email address right away. PM me for help doing this.

With phone, caller id from London, don't answer. If he gets thru, answer like a telemarketing call, "not interested." and hang up. If this is hard, then change your phone number.

It's like alcohol, you won't drink a quart if you don't take the first drink. It's all about the first drink.

05-02-2006, 05:14 PM	#2
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Do I have to say it......Nope, you know. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

05-02-2006, 09:54 PM	#3
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	Bre PLEASE send Cyclefrance his address so he can send a few toughs over there to beat this fool with some wilted onions !!! __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

05-03-2006, 09:28 AM	#4
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	Good morning, time for your daily reality check. He didn't miss you last night. He didn't even think about you. Carry on. __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

05-03-2006, 09:30 AM	#5
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Oh, I know, I know...I've been licking my wounds all night--and, this morning. I don't know who I hate more-him or me. The urge to fuck up his life is raising it's ugly head. I want to call him and tell him off. Not that he'd care. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

05-03-2006, 10:02 AM	#6
mrnoodle bent Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: under the weather Posts: 2,656	Dude. get over it. You can't fuck up his life. There's nothing you could do that would remotely affect him one way or the other (there's assault and murder, but that's counterproductive). Make him as much of a non-entity in your mind as you are in his. Rejoin humanity and stop wallowing in dog shit. You're afraid of feeling nothing, aren't you? Well, you're going to have to, at least for awhile. Suck it up, do it. End of story. I'm quickly running out of empathy here. How many times can someone walk up to you and say "Look, I hit myself in the head with a hammer" and you stop feeling sorry for them? end. it. __________________ Sìn a nall na cuaranan sin. -- Cha mhór is fheairrde thu iad, tha iad coltach ri cat air a dhathadh

05-03-2006, 11:05 AM	#7
Stormieweather Wearing her bitch boots Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Floriduh Posts: 1,181	I don't know you Brianna (nice name , it is also my daughter's), so I can't address your situation directly, but I do know about not-so-healthy relationships. Having toxic people in your life will make you sick (mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically). You can also get addicted to the roller coaster of extremes that a relationship with a toxic person often involves. But seriously, the nice, gentle ups and downs of a healthy relationship are SO much better than the wild ride that comes with toxic people. It takes some getting used to, the lack of drama...but it makes for a much happier life, overall. Oh, and those toxic people are taking up space in our lives that decent people could be filling. Get them out! Let them sucker some other poor soul. Stormie <who got off the roller coaster a while back>

05-03-2006, 01:05 PM	#8
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	I think the time has come to start teaching your spam catcher to put all of his messages in the trash. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

05-03-2006, 01:15 PM	#9
thrillhouse spoonful of bologna Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: salvation holdout central Posts: 333	nope. do what i did. . . . . BLOCK his email address from yours. do.it.now. __________________ i'm drinking stars

05-03-2006, 03:03 PM	#10
Rock Steady Day Tripper Join Date: May 2005 Location: Silicon Valley Posts: 784	Yes. Block/Spamize his email address right away. PM me for help doing this. With phone, caller id from London, don't answer. If he gets thru, answer like a telemarketing call, "not interested." and hang up. If this is hard, then change your phone number. It's like alcohol, you won't drink a quart if you don't take the first drink. It's all about the first drink. __________________

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