My nephew and his Dad - Page 3

DucksNuts · 11-28-2011, 03:15 AM

Sigh....so I get a message today from I.S (JS' Dad) who says his daughter (who I.S said was quite pushy) thinks that it will be better if JS contacts her first...

Fuck off

JS didn't even know she existed until a few days ago. Little miss (who's Facebook name is Princess [name]) isn't the only pushy bitch in this situation.

Its taken me ages to get JS comfortable with meeting his Dad (FYI, my sister told JS that his Dad used to beat her...which may be true, but none of my family believe so and hell - I've wanted to belt her a few times myself)...im not about to say "hey, contact this chick rather than your dad, ok? Cool".

Sundae · 11-28-2011, 11:28 AM

Quite right Ducks.
This is not about the daughter.
JS has as much right to his father as this girl. She cannot hi-jack this.

(I admit, my gut sympathies are with her though - I'd have been the same if it was my Dad suddenly revealing he had another child. I'm highly possessive.)

Aliantha · 11-28-2011, 04:51 PM

What father in their right mind would say you have to go through my daughter to get to me? lol Wouldn't your normal protective instincts tell you to go first and make sure your son hasn't turned into some kinda crazy axe murderer in the intervening years?

Either that or wouldn't the fact that you're supposed to have balls put you in charge of your daughter?

Sorry Ducky. I think I'm a little bit unstable this morning. It's all just too much for me.

I'm getting off the cellar now before I say something really stupid. lol

DucksNuts · 11-28-2011, 05:34 PM

Nah, all good Ali.

It seems this Daddy's little girl has some serious control issues, but I got it sorted.

I think I.S is just caught in the middle a bit, doesnt want to upset his Daughter and they have had some terrible family news this year, so I am not being too hard on him.

I have *suggested* (read: told them how it is) that I.S and JS should build some foundations before they introduce Princess and JS' son into the mix. It was agreed.

Im pretty chuffed that I.S' last message was "I look forward to talking to JS at length and hopefully rebuild what we have both lost over the years".

Awwww

Aliantha · 11-28-2011, 07:11 PM

That's very sweet. I hope it all turns out for the best.

Has sis gotten wind of any of it yet?

DucksNuts · 11-28-2011, 09:17 PM

Noooo, not yet.

As soon as she logs into facebook she will, she will see her son and her ex are my friends - that will be an awkward conversation.

Mum told me to play nice if we go at it.

Same as she told me to bite my tongue at Dad's funeral (which I did), but seriously, she doesnt talk to ANY of us for 4 years and then all of a sudden she's everywhere and annoyed that she doesnt know whats been going on ...hallooooo...answer your phone, reply to a txt...its a two way street.

The "everywhere" stopped as soon as she found out there's no inheritance.

DucksNuts · 11-30-2011, 10:27 PM

bah...my sister has just turned up on facebook.

This wont be pretty

Aliantha · 11-30-2011, 10:55 PM

Awesome! lol

morethanpretty · 11-30-2011, 11:08 PM

Good luck Ducks! For the record, I think you're doing the right thing.

zippyt · 11-30-2011, 11:28 PM

Fuck her !!!
Yer doing the right thing Dux

glatt · 12-01-2011, 07:23 AM

Good luck, Ducks.

Clodfobble · 12-01-2011, 02:39 PM

Can we get screenshots?

DucksNuts · 12-02-2011, 01:13 AM

Ha ha, so far she hasnt noticed.

She's only commented on my lust of RedFoo.

xoxoxoBruce · 12-09-2011, 08:10 PM

The self-centered see what they want. It may not be pretty, but I'm sure you can handle her, and will only be as rough on her as necessary. You done good.

Sundae · 12-10-2011, 05:51 AM

Damn, thought RedFoo might be an exciting new Australian dish.
But he's just a man.
YMMV.

11-28-2011, 11:28 AM	#32
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Quite right Ducks. This is not about the daughter. JS has as much right to his father as this girl. She cannot hi-jack this. (I admit, my gut sympathies are with her though - I'd have been the same if it was my Dad suddenly revealing he had another child. I'm highly possessive.) __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

11-28-2011, 04:51 PM	#33
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	What father in their right mind would say you have to go through my daughter to get to me? lol Wouldn't your normal protective instincts tell you to go first and make sure your son hasn't turned into some kinda crazy axe murderer in the intervening years? Either that or wouldn't the fact that you're supposed to have balls put you in charge of your daughter? Sorry Ducky. I think I'm a little bit unstable this morning. It's all just too much for me. I'm getting off the cellar now before I say something really stupid. lol __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

11-28-2011, 07:11 PM	#35
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	That's very sweet. I hope it all turns out for the best. Has sis gotten wind of any of it yet? __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

11-30-2011, 10:55 PM	#38
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Awesome! lol __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

11-30-2011, 11:08 PM	#39
morethanpretty Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you. Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: little town (but not the littlest) in texas Posts: 2,957	Good luck Ducks! For the record, I think you're doing the right thing. __________________ Addicts may suck dick for coke, but love came up with the idea to put a dick in there to begin with. -Jack O'Brien

11-28-2011, 03:15 AM	#31
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Sigh....so I get a message today from I.S (JS' Dad) who says his daughter (who I.S said was quite pushy) thinks that it will be better if JS contacts her first... Fuck off JS didn't even know she existed until a few days ago. Little miss (who's Facebook name is Princess [name]) isn't the only pushy bitch in this situation. Its taken me ages to get JS comfortable with meeting his Dad (FYI, my sister told JS that his Dad used to beat her...which may be true, but none of my family believe so and hell - I've wanted to belt her a few times myself)...im not about to say "hey, contact this chick rather than your dad, ok? Cool".

11-28-2011, 05:34 PM	#34
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Nah, all good Ali. It seems this Daddy's little girl has some serious control issues, but I got it sorted. I think I.S is just caught in the middle a bit, doesnt want to upset his Daughter and they have had some terrible family news this year, so I am not being too hard on him. I have suggested (read: told them how it is) that I.S and JS should build some foundations before they introduce Princess and JS' son into the mix. It was agreed. Im pretty chuffed that I.S' last message was "I look forward to talking to JS at length and hopefully rebuild what we have both lost over the years". Awwww

11-28-2011, 09:17 PM	#36
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Noooo, not yet. As soon as she logs into facebook she will, she will see her son and her ex are my friends - that will be an awkward conversation. Mum told me to play nice if we go at it. Same as she told me to bite my tongue at Dad's funeral (which I did), but seriously, she doesnt talk to ANY of us for 4 years and then all of a sudden she's everywhere and annoyed that she doesnt know whats been going on ...hallooooo...answer your phone, reply to a txt...its a two way street. The "everywhere" stopped as soon as she found out there's no inheritance.

11-30-2011, 10:27 PM	#37
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	bah...my sister has just turned up on facebook. This wont be pretty

11-30-2011, 11:28 PM	#40
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	Fuck her !!! Yer doing the right thing Dux __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

12-01-2011, 07:23 AM	#41
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	Good luck, Ducks.

12-01-2011, 02:39 PM	#42
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	Can we get screenshots? __________________ My book My other book My spirit animal

12-02-2011, 01:13 AM	#43
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Ha ha, so far she hasnt noticed. She's only commented on my lust of RedFoo.

12-09-2011, 08:10 PM	#44
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	The self-centered see what they want. It may not be pretty, but I'm sure you can handle her, and will only be as rough on her as necessary. You done good. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

12-10-2011, 05:51 AM	#45
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Damn, thought RedFoo might be an exciting new Australian dish. But he's just a man. YMMV. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

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