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Old 12-05-2016, 08:48 AM   #1
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Let's not squabble over the details when our intentions are all of one accord, and for the best.
I am sure that the gesture of "taking up a collection" in Sundae's memory would be very positively received. We could send a plant with a message of condolence from the Cellar, and that would also be very well received. We could certainly convey to Sundae's mum that Dwellars would be very happy for any "leftover" funds to be used to cover funeral costs, but also give her the option to donate to a charity of her choosing if that is what she prefers.
As to a memorial bench - I think you are thinking of the park in Otley, LJ. Although she loved the park, Otley was not a particularly happy place for Sundae. Also, there can be a lot of red tape around getting permission to put new benches in such places.
Sundae's mum is grappling with red tape in Leeds and won't get home until tomorrow. We'll let you know what's decided about the time and place of the funeral - that would be a good deadline for donations.
I'm happy to collect donations, if everyone else is happy with that. Paypal payments as a "between friends" transaction so that there are no costs. I'd be grateful if you could put "Sundae's memorial" in the description so that if the taxman takes an interest I can show him that it's not a commercial transaction. PM me for my email address - discretion as to your participation is assured.
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Old 12-05-2016, 10:04 AM   #2
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I'm happy to collect donations, if everyone else is happy with that. Paypal payments as a "between friends" transaction so that there are no costs. I'd be grateful if you could put "Sundae's memorial" in the description so that if the taxman takes an interest I can show him that it's not a commercial transaction. PM me for my email address - discretion as to your participation is assured.
Sending PM now...is it too early to set a deadline for donations to be made?
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Old 12-05-2016, 10:46 AM   #3
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We could send a plant with a message of condolence from the Cellar, and that would also be very well received. We could certainly convey to Sundae's mum that Dwellars would be very happy for any "leftover" funds to be used to cover funeral costs, but also give her the option to donate to a charity of her choosing if that is what she prefers.
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Old 12-05-2016, 11:00 AM   #4
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Limey, thank you so much.
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Old 12-05-2016, 09:13 AM   #5
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Thank you Limey, Dana, and Carruthers for being such very good friends to our Sundae.

I know your friendships meant so much to her.
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Old 12-05-2016, 12:31 PM   #6
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Thank you for everything you are doing limey. Pm sent.
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Old 12-05-2016, 05:18 PM   #7
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Damn! Just looks what happens when you don,t sorry can,t find the key. Come much anymore,
I must had a nice card and small gift from her last week,
Rest now lovely lady.
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Old 12-05-2016, 08:35 PM   #8
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Damn! Just looks what happens when you don,t sorry can,t find the key. Come much anymore,
I must had a nice card and small gift from her last week,
Rest now lovely lady.
Went from my @#$%&tablet. Bb

Buster!

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Old 12-05-2016, 06:09 PM   #9
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I will donate also, just say where. I can't until the 16th, but on that date, absolutely.
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Old 12-05-2016, 06:21 PM   #10
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Stormie, PM limey. She was headed for bed a few minutes ago, so you probably won't get an immediate answer.
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Old 12-06-2016, 03:37 AM   #11
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Sundae's Mum has quite a sweet tooth. She may enjoy a box of chocolates. If anyone has Sheila's current address I'd be very grateful for it. I met her once and she is a lovely lady. I can't imagine how she's coping. I will contribute to the collective donation in whatever form it takes.
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Old 12-06-2016, 03:52 AM   #12
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Sundae's Mum has quite a sweet tooth. She may enjoy a box of chocolates. If anyone has Sheila's current address I'd be very grateful for it. I met her once and she is a lovely lady. I can't imagine how she's coping. I will contribute to the collective donation in whatever form it takes.

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Old 12-06-2016, 04:25 AM   #13
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Y'all decide what to do. I don't have pay pal, but Jim does and I will send him a check.

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Old 12-06-2016, 11:50 AM   #14
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Fuck this you guys

Sundae just can't be gone
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Old 12-06-2016, 12:47 PM   #15
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Fuck this you guys

Sundae just can't be gone
I somehow missed the last part of that post.
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