I have left The Cellar

[Old Bunyip]

I have also repeatedly made it clear I would not like it if she joined the cellar.
This is not the case. Zen was ambivalent, but when I suggested it, asked me not to reveal our relationship etc.

He also never said he had problems with me "lurking" (a value laden term for being a guest to this site.)

I was too shy to join earlier, but, like Zen, enjoy wordplay and the conversations of like-minded people.
I agree this is out of character for him and I hope he returns to you soon.

Meanwhile...can anyone suggest a similar site I could join?

[glatt]

Originally Posted by Old Bunyip

I have also repeatedly made it clear I would not like it if she joined the cellar.


This is not the case. Zen was ambivalent...

This is the post that confused me.