What's bumming your stone today? - Page 6

Big Sarge · 08-15-2011, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by infinite monkey

I'm still solitary location-wise though there is someone in my life I care about who lives too far away. Maybe that's one way I can be very very careful still.

Does this guy have a Panda suit and hang out at the old sewage lagoon?

jimhelm · 08-15-2011, 03:41 PM

Thanks L

srsly.

I have a couple good buddies that I can rap with if I need it. And then there's youse guise. and my mom still thinks I'm cool... so, I've got that going for me.

kerosene · 08-15-2011, 05:15 PM

Which is nice.

(I just can't help it. I thought I could resist in type form, but apparently I cannot.)

Jim, I am sorry you are going through this. That is probably something I said to you before, but I say it again, because I mean it again.

Solitary time is good for you. I wish I had done that before. I am fortunate that my relationship has survived the turmoil that goes with that period right after a major breakup with someone else. Everyone says you should wait and heal, and I didn't do that. I recommend it, though. I think you will thank yourself later and be much much stronger for it.

Aliantha · 08-15-2011, 05:22 PM

It was five years after I broke up with my older boys father before I met Dazza. It was good having that time to sort myself out, but in saying that, there were certainly a number of dalliances to spice up the journey though. Solitude might be good for healing, but the human touch has some pretty magical qualities also.

jimhelm · 08-15-2011, 05:35 PM

It felt very good to have some affection after the crash ending of my marriage. I realized that even during my marriage I was not getting much of it. So, yeah.. pretty magical. I turned a blind eye to everything else, I think. I guess its a balance we need to find, like everything.

Aliantha · 08-15-2011, 05:38 PM

You can't bake a cake with only one ingredient.

Griff · 08-15-2011, 05:48 PM

jimhelm · 08-15-2011, 06:05 PM

I tell myself that I'll just store my Chi. ...but I know me. this thing will go off while I'm cleaning it, no doubt. ....it can have a hair trigger some mornings.

footfootfoot · 08-15-2011, 07:12 PM

Ahh to be young again.

monster · 08-15-2011, 11:07 PM

guy?

Big Sarge · 08-16-2011, 12:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by monster

guy?

my bad. i didn't know she is a switch hitter. now my heart is broken because i felt we had a connection. sigh

infinite monkey · 08-16-2011, 07:47 AM

monster's just fantasizing again. She does this from time to time. Then she realizes it is but a dream, and I am unattainable on every level.

Yeah, it's a curse. I was talking to my ex and the subject of this mutual friend came up and I told my ex that the guy's in love with me. The ex said "Well duh, who isn't?"

Who isn't, indeed.

Gravdigr · 08-16-2011, 05:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by infinite monkey

...I told my ex that the guy's in love with me. The ex said "Well duh, who isn't?"...

Was he using the sarcasm font?

jimhelm · 08-16-2011, 08:44 AM

classicman?

jimhelm · 08-16-2011, 08:44 AM

but then,... I'm not so sure, LOLZIE

08-15-2011, 03:41 PM	#2
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	Thanks L srsly. I have a couple good buddies that I can rap with if I need it. And then there's youse guise. and my mom still thinks I'm cool... so, I've got that going for me. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-15-2011, 05:22 PM	#4
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	It was five years after I broke up with my older boys father before I met Dazza. It was good having that time to sort myself out, but in saying that, there were certainly a number of dalliances to spice up the journey though. Solitude might be good for healing, but the human touch has some pretty magical qualities also. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

08-15-2011, 05:35 PM	#5
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	It felt very good to have some affection after the crash ending of my marriage. I realized that even during my marriage I was not getting much of it. So, yeah.. pretty magical. I turned a blind eye to everything else, I think. I guess its a balance we need to find, like everything. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-15-2011, 05:38 PM	#6
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	You can't bake a cake with only one ingredient. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

08-15-2011, 05:48 PM	#7
Griff still says videotape Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 26,813	__________________ If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. - Louis D. Brandeis

08-15-2011, 05:15 PM	#3
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Which is nice. (I just can't help it. I thought I could resist in type form, but apparently I cannot.) Jim, I am sorry you are going through this. That is probably something I said to you before, but I say it again, because I mean it again. Solitary time is good for you. I wish I had done that before. I am fortunate that my relationship has survived the turmoil that goes with that period right after a major breakup with someone else. Everyone says you should wait and heal, and I didn't do that. I recommend it, though. I think you will thank yourself later and be much much stronger for it.

08-15-2011, 06:05 PM	#8
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	I tell myself that I'll just store my Chi. ...but I know me. this thing will go off while I'm cleaning it, no doubt. ....it can have a hair trigger some mornings. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-15-2011, 07:12 PM	#9
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Ahh to be young again. __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

08-15-2011, 11:07 PM	#10
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	guy? __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

08-16-2011, 07:47 AM	#12
infinite monkey Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 13,002	monster's just fantasizing again. She does this from time to time. Then she realizes it is but a dream, and I am unattainable on every level. Yeah, it's a curse. I was talking to my ex and the subject of this mutual friend came up and I told my ex that the guy's in love with me. The ex said "Well duh, who isn't?" Who isn't, indeed.

08-16-2011, 08:44 AM	#14
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	classicman? __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-16-2011, 08:44 AM	#15
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	but then,... I'm not so sure, LOLZIE __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

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