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Old 10-29-2007, 05:01 PM   #16
Aliantha
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Oooh...yeah. Bunny boilers. I'd forgotten that phrase. always a good one when a male friend starts telling you all about this new chick he's started seeing. I had one friend who serially dated bunny boilers to the extent that it was a standard question when he started the whole cycle over again.

It didn't help them that he'd always tell them about me and what a great friend I was before introducing us. A couple of them even admitted (in that confidential way chicks sometimes do after a couple of drinks) that they were really nervous about meeting me. Yep, way to freak out a bunny boiler mate!
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Old 10-29-2007, 05:02 PM   #17
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BTW...my friend is still single, and we're not so close anymore. In fact we don't see each other at all anymore really. I got tired of being on the merry go round with him.
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Old 10-29-2007, 05:19 PM   #18
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I'm not psycho enough. Thats where I have been going wrong.

For girls its bad boys, for guys its psycho chicks.
Correction:

For girls it's psycho boys, and for guys it's bad girls.

Think about it. And...

You aren't a big enough bitch apparently.
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Old 10-30-2007, 11:24 PM   #19
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Methinks Plthijinx can tell us ALL about psycho chicks.

NBN can back him up.

Rumour has it that there are further developments in this saga but I will avoid posting unsupported rumours without corroborating evidence.
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Old 10-30-2007, 11:36 PM   #20
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we Shall see now Shan't we !!
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Old 10-30-2007, 11:39 PM   #21
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These days, those guys post once in a blue moon. Brian, I believe it's up to you to give us the lowdown...a serious experiment depends on it.
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Old 10-31-2007, 04:51 AM   #22
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Yes....like the rest of my life hangs in the balance here Brian.
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Old 06-08-2008, 07:37 AM   #23
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I know I am a little loopy and ...well...fucked up...but seriously....guys get sucked into believing the bullshitiest bullshit ever.

The erotic pic taking dude is off on a detour with a chick, (which is cool, we have that kinda friends with benefits thing happening) that was a penthouse pet 27 odd years ago and that little acheivment is what she clings too, brandishes around every second sentence.

Pyscho writes shit like this...

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What would you do if I told what your striving to become...someday soon will.....WILL angel...be the force from within you that CAN ...and not only CAN but SHALL start changing and shaping the world. Darling....of those of us who feel deeply, compassionately, selflessly..for human kind and the goodness we know CAN be there if one allows it TO BE....They call us "Shapers." The pull of the dark side at your soul is a doubled sided blade. The bad side is the hopelessness we feel in our souls. The good side is that you will use the darkness to BRING LIGHT. We are the bringers OF Light baby. I'm a little ahead because God DOES CONTROL my life and my destiny.

People have trouble honey with TRUST. To trust is to open oneself to many vulnerabilities deep within us. Most do not have the personal integrity to reach deep. But you and I DO. Know you are in every single WAKING and sleeping prayer. Take my hand and we SHALL do it together and affect ..AFFECT the world. It's our destiny baby. Bet all you are on it.
and he eats this shit UP!
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Old 06-08-2008, 08:07 AM   #24
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Because we read/hear....
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blah blah blah blah beat me blah blah blah blah
blah blah blah blah bite me blah blah blah blah
blah blah blah blah whip me blah blah blah blah
blah blah blah blah fuck me blah blah blah blah
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Old 06-08-2008, 10:13 AM   #25
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Well she does know the difference between affect and effect...
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Old 06-08-2008, 10:24 AM   #26
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and he eats this shit UP!

but it won't last long. I don't recomend waiting though. If he isn't changing himself for himself he will always seek a co-dependant relationship and if you arn't a control freak then you'r an outie.

I know because I'm an outie. A too scared to keep trying outie too btw.
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Old 06-08-2008, 11:34 AM   #27
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I don't know what you mean by "outie".

Ducks, I wonder what you took that paragraph from? Guys listen to anything that comes out of someone if they are seeing a little boob action.

Guys are like- uh huh sure. Yea. Good idea, uh- huh, god, uh huh.....trust uh huh.....nod nod. So yea...you were a playboy pet..uh huh. I totally agree about our destiny, yea. (waiting for her to shut up so they can get freaky)

It is all about the packaging and personal fetishes. Unless you are dealing with someone a bit more mature, but the odds are, not really. Maybe you are biased and giving him some credit for eating anything up and truly believing anything she says. I mean, did he not agree to everything after she said "playboy pet" and showed him some cleavage?

For an open relationship, FWB's, you seem a little jealous?
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Old 06-08-2008, 01:09 PM   #28
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The erotic pic taking dude is off on a detour with a chick, (which is cool, we have that kinda friends with benefits thing happening) that was a penthouse pet 27 odd years ago and that little acheivment is what she clings too, brandishes around every second sentence.
Um.... you wouldn't happen to know the year and month, would you?

Well, if you want attention and a reputation for crazy, you could always get your spank pic put on a T-shirt and wear it to the mall. "Why yes, that's me in the picture. Why do you ask?"
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Old 06-08-2008, 05:48 PM   #29
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Well she does know the difference between affect and effect...
Not between your and you're though.

Ah Ducks, he's just thinking with his cock.
And sadly, people you think you are on the same wavelength as - even people who you think treat you as special because of your mind - can suddenly act like they had a lunchtime lobotomy when it comes to other people.

I chat to a guy in the pub every shift. He's very sharp, funny, quick, just my type mentally (but attached, so not something I would consider). He was flirting with a pretty female friend the other night. He hung on her every word and laughed uproariously, in a way I haven't heard him laugh before. Now I heard their conversation - she wasn't all that bright and certainly not that funny. I was so disappointed in him.
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Old 06-08-2008, 05:55 PM   #30
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@ cic

People are usually on the inside or the outside of a relationship. As far as my relationship I'm an 'outie.'


It's a made up word sweetie but I didn't make it up. I don't think so anyway. lol
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