When does one stop being the "baby" of the family?

[Cloud]

I think those are good ideas, Sweetwater, but -- I don't think they'll fly. Giving money or a donation on someone's behalf is absolutely not the same as giving them a bed or a tv they think will be used by the recipient. It's a different kind of giving feeling, and I suspect not the kind the older sisters are craving.

I guess part of the problem, Sheldon, is you feel you are being condescended to, or like you are receiving charity. As both the baby of my family, and a heartfelt giver to my kids, I understand both viewpoints.