Times are tough all over

[DanaC]

Originally Posted by classicman

Without going into my personal circumstances too much...
I know I couldn't - I tried. Caring for a family of 5 on that is impossible. So I got a 2nd job and a third job and put myself through college so that I could independently provide better for my family. I did what was necessary to generate more money.
I received food stamps and using them made me sick every time - The stigma THAT I FELT taking a handout was a great motivating factor for me.

I really admire you classic, that can't have been easy. I think it is enormously to your credit that your rose to the challenge and didn't drown. But, consider this: with society stepping in to help carry some of that burden, maybe you wouldn't have had to work three jobs and would have had more time to spend with the family you were working so hard to raise. Why not? If the children you were raising grow up to be strong and well educated, proud and loving, responsible and courageous, do you not think that society will reap the benefit of that?

Let society, the wider community, take some of the burden when raising a family becomes an almost insurmountable task. The good that your children might do in the world, could extend far beyond their front lawn. Why should parents, working hard to bring about the nation's most precious and valuable asset, be left stranded high and dry, humiliated in front of their kids with voucher-based charity, or separating themselves from ther children for much of their waking lives?

The fierce independence of the American way is wonderful. That people take such strong responsiblity for themselves and their families is a worthy and admirable thing. But there is a price.