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Old 09-23-2008, 09:44 AM   #31
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C'mon V. If you were involved in that scene, would you, tell you, about it?
Good question.

If I (some very different I) were involved in that scene, would I tell me (the current me) about it? Well, I guess that's certainly a possibility. Someone from that scene has told me about it, I don't see why some hypothetical me in that scene wouldn't do the same.

Your larger point is well taken though. My scene doesn't overlap that one. In this real case, it only touches it, here in this thread.

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You don't believe this kind of thing happens? More than 2 people having sexual contact with each other at the same time in the same place, together?
I don't disbelieve that more than two people have sex together. I don't think I said that anywhere. xoB sees it more clearly. I said I don't have any experience like this, or close friends with such experience. I called myself unimaginative, not stupid. I did jump in when the discussion turned to "pig on a spit".

When I expanded on my thoughts, I said I don't get it, that it doesn't work for me. I said love was the keystone to sexual fun for me, that mutual involvement with my partner was what flipped my switch. And that mutual focus seems to be the very opposite of swinging, casual sex, with one partner or more.

It doesn't bother me. But it is unknown to me.
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Old 09-23-2008, 09:49 AM   #32
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DucksNuts, I also wanted to say thanks for your gentle reply. I appreciate that.
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Old 09-23-2008, 08:34 PM   #33
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Ah, the rotisserie treatment....
from "Chasing Amy" ...filled out like an application...
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Old 09-23-2008, 11:36 PM   #34
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I am sorta with V. Its not really love, but an element of romance. Which I guess there can be romance between a group of people at once. But I would want to give and get the undivided attention of my partner.
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Old 09-24-2008, 01:55 AM   #35
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from "Chasing Amy" ...filled out like an application...

Fingercuffs?
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Old 09-28-2008, 09:41 PM   #36
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We *watched*, I had....errrr....Aunt Flow issues. Which is weird, coz I have a Mirena and never get them, but I did.

Anyways, the *club* wants us to join, (the coordinator dude was basically drooling over my chest :::shudder::, there were some nice couples and some guys that I would definitely do.

@Pico and Me....nah, no fav's or reg's....its a new club...neutral territory.
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Old 10-05-2008, 09:39 AM   #37
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neutral territory.
Neutral is better. No obligations required afterwards. No games.
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