Swinging....

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by BigV

I'm not buying it.

I guess I must be a prude or unimaginative. To me it seems like what used to be called playground talk and is now known as urban legend. All talk no action, or nearly none. I know of no one, not first hand, not second hand, not third hand that has any actual experience like this. They make moderately interesting stories, but no more.

Color me skeptical.

C'mon V. If you were involved in that scene, would you, tell you, about it?

[BigV]

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

C'mon V. If you were involved in that scene, would you, tell you, about it?

Good question.

If I (some very different I) were involved in that scene, would I tell me (the current me) about it? Well, I guess that's certainly a possibility. Someone from that scene has told me about it, I don't see why some hypothetical me in that scene wouldn't do the same.

Your larger point is well taken though. My scene doesn't overlap that one. In this real case, it only touches it, here in this thread.

Originally Posted by LabRat

You don't believe this kind of thing happens? More than 2 people having sexual contact with each other at the same time in the same place, together?

I don't disbelieve that more than two people have sex together. I don't think I said that anywhere. xoB sees it more clearly. I said I don't have any experience like this, or close friends with such experience. I called myself unimaginative, not stupid. I did jump in when the discussion turned to "pig on a spit".

When I expanded on my thoughts, I said I don't get it, that it doesn't work for me. I said love was the keystone to sexual fun for me, that mutual involvement with my partner was what flipped my switch. And that mutual focus seems to be the very opposite of swinging, casual sex, with one partner or more.

It doesn't bother me. But it is unknown to me.