Swinging....

[BigV]

I'm not buying it.

I guess I must be a prude or unimaginative. To me it seems like what used to be called playground talk and is now known as urban legend. All talk no action, or nearly none. I know of no one, not first hand, not second hand, not third hand that has any actual experience like this. They make moderately interesting stories, but no more.

Color me skeptical.

[Sheldonrs]

Originally Posted by BigV

I'm not buying it.

I guess I must be a prude or unimaginative. To me it seems like what used to be called playground talk and is now known as urban legend. All talk no action, or nearly none. I know of no one, not first hand, not second hand, not third hand that has any actual experience like this. They make moderately interesting stories, but no more.

Color me skeptical.

Been there, done them. Been in many 3-ways, 4-ways and more-ways. Through Craigslist, Manhunt, and bath houses. I'll take pics at the next one for you and then YOU WILL BELIEVE!!! Muahahahaha!!!!

[DucksNuts]

Originally Posted by BigV

I'm not buying it.

I guess I must be a prude or unimaginative. To me it seems like what used to be called playground talk and is now known as urban legend. All talk no action, or nearly none. I know of no one, not first hand, not second hand, not third hand that has any actual experience like this. They make moderately interesting stories, but no more.

Color me skeptical.

Meh V, can show you many a pic. Can also show you the local *swingers directory* that comes out bi-monthly (pun?).

There are parties dedicated to these type of *get togethers* every month in the city.

Awww Bri....what about you, me and two guys?

[BigV]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Its an arranged weekend...think eyes wide shut....I've been to one years and years ago, but I dont do this kinda thing very well when I am involved with my partner (previously, it was a f-buddy type thing).

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Meh V, can show you --snip

Thanks for the pix offer--pass though.

The bold parts are where I lose the connection. I just can't--I was going to say imagine. That's not right. I can imagine it. I could even imagine myself in such a situation. But even imagining myself in such a situation isn't stimulating without a loving partner. There's no appeal without including the love of my heart.

When you were involved with your partner, what made you not do it well? I'm in that same mindset. With a partner, whatever's mutual is open for discussion. But otherwise, no.

I'm mangling what I'm trying to say. Here it is. No sex without love for me. Just not happenin. To each his own, I don't condemn you or the others, I just can't though. Carry on.

[Elspode]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Awww Bri....what about you, me and two guys?

Ooh!! Oooh!!! Mistuh Kotteh!!! Ovah heah!!!!!

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by BigV

I'm not buying it.

I guess I must be a prude or unimaginative. To me it seems like what used to be called playground talk and is now known as urban legend. All talk no action, or nearly none. I know of no one, not first hand, not second hand, not third hand that has any actual experience like this. They make moderately interesting stories, but no more.

Color me skeptical.

C'mon V. If you were involved in that scene, would you, tell you, about it?

[BigV]

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

C'mon V. If you were involved in that scene, would you, tell you, about it?

Good question.

If I (some very different I) were involved in that scene, would I tell me (the current me) about it? Well, I guess that's certainly a possibility. Someone from that scene has told me about it, I don't see why some hypothetical me in that scene wouldn't do the same.

Your larger point is well taken though. My scene doesn't overlap that one. In this real case, it only touches it, here in this thread.

Originally Posted by LabRat

You don't believe this kind of thing happens? More than 2 people having sexual contact with each other at the same time in the same place, together?

I don't disbelieve that more than two people have sex together. I don't think I said that anywhere. xoB sees it more clearly. I said I don't have any experience like this, or close friends with such experience. I called myself unimaginative, not stupid. I did jump in when the discussion turned to "pig on a spit".

When I expanded on my thoughts, I said I don't get it, that it doesn't work for me. I said love was the keystone to sexual fun for me, that mutual involvement with my partner was what flipped my switch. And that mutual focus seems to be the very opposite of swinging, casual sex, with one partner or more.

It doesn't bother me. But it is unknown to me.

[LabRat]

Originally Posted by BigV

I'm not buying it. ~snip~ Color me skeptical.

You don't believe this kind of thing happens? More than 2 people having sexual contact with each other at the same time in the same place, together?

Really?