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Old 04-18-2011, 07:55 PM   #1
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Anyone else hear "Play Misty For Me"?
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Old 04-18-2011, 08:04 PM   #2
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Absolutely! My BS meter goes off for anyone wanting to harm another human being and writing it on a public forum as a noob.
What is going on here now?? Who is harming anybody? Am I not welcomed here??
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Old 04-18-2011, 09:12 PM   #3
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I have a third instinctive response to PP's post, and that is my bullshit meter is in the red.

I suspect if bullshit were music she'd be a brass band.

But three cheers for credulous dwellars willing to give her the benefit of the doubt.
The other thread just sort of went away after I halfway suggested that I suspect this is the case.
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Old 04-18-2011, 09:18 PM   #4
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The other thread just sort of went away after I halfway suggested that I suspect this is the case.
Now what? What is 'the case??' I have been on here for less than a day. I have tried to make friends, and now this? Please explain...

This is not fair to me, and it is very hurtful, as I have no one to turn to; and I am out of options with most of the details of my life...

Your friend?
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Old 04-18-2011, 09:21 PM   #5
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Sketcher sneakers are very expensive for a poor person.

Why the demand for PM's?
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Old 04-18-2011, 09:26 PM   #6
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Sketcher sneakers are very expensive for a poor person.

Why the demand for PM's?
The sneakers were an Xmas gift. I have not demanded any PM's (e
mail on here?), I am just very upset. Pills...alcohol...depression...

I know I am not normal, so I guess I fit into the lifestyle of NYC. I embrace it. One day I woke up, and I knew I would never be normal again; so I live that life.

2 years ago, I wrote a suicide note, ... yet I am still alive. I am going to have another glass of wine. I am truly messed up. I know that...
But thank you for your response... Love - Pam.
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:37 PM   #7
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I was ignoring my bullshitometer on the grounds that, if she is playing us and we credulously take her seriously the ramifications of that are quite minor. If she is telling the truth and we shoot her down, the ramifications of that are potentially less minor.

I'd rather take a gamble on someone being who they say they are and be proved wrong once in a while, than assume shennanigans too easily and greet a genuine arrival with cynicism as default.
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:38 PM   #8
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Yeah but after "see a professional" your duty is done.
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:40 PM   #9
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Unless she really is a newly arrived dwellar in which case I'd quite like to learn a little more about her.
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:44 PM   #10
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Unless she really is a newly arrived dwellar in which case I'd quite like to learn a little more about her.
I just arrived on this site today. And I have stated that fact. Just because I am deaf, does not mean that I can not see some of the hurtful comments that people are writing regarding my situation, and viewing me as a 'joke.'

I am not sure what else you would like to know. You were so kind to me Dana, now I see that you have said that I am not true of my circumstances??? I came here seeking help, yet it seems that people are not being kind to me. I have come here in pieces, seeking some peace...
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:46 PM   #11
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She has above average writing skills, she sounds quite self reflective and she has a reason for continuing with all her problems. She considers someone suggesting professional help a value judgement, yet she also claims to see a therapist 2x week. This hasn't come up?

That's all I bothered to read. The smell is almost as bad as puke.
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:48 PM   #12
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She's the only one talking about her deafness and trotting it out as an argument that legitimizes her claims of being persecuted... Circular.
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Old 04-18-2011, 06:53 PM   #13
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Is that you Stephen???

I knew you would find me here. I was going to tell you that night, but then you left. I wanted to tell you that I love you, but I was afraid of the silence that would follow. And at times, I fantasize about rejecting an apology from you that will never come. And I want to stop lying to you, but you would just be dissapointed in me.

You told me that you were sad because you thought it was 'goodbye' for a little while. I was sad because I knew it was 'goodbye' forever...

Everyone says 'I love you,' ...and then they don't. I should have never let you get on that train... Love - Pam.
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Old 04-18-2011, 08:07 PM   #14
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You are certainly welcome here, your postings indicate you need help, perhaps this site would be a better place to air your thoughts and problems http://nami.org
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Old 04-18-2011, 08:11 PM   #15
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You are certainly welcome here, your postings indicate you need help, perhaps this site would be a better place to air your thoughts and problems http://nami.org
I am afraid to open that link; as many links have viruses. I appreciate you accepting me here. Why is everyone saying I need help??? It is making me feel much worse than I already do. Are we all not friends on here?? You are making me think that there is something inherently wrong with me...which I already know...

But your words are hurtful, and I am not an animal at the circus, for your entertainment. Perhaps, I should just leave...no?
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