how far are yo uwilling to go to please your partner?

[elf]

Originally Posted by lookout123

the only problem is that if you attempt to live out a long held fantasy, the reality will dim in comparison and then that cool fantasy that she enjoys thinking about will be gone.

been there done that.

that being said, i'm willing to try almost anything once. sometimes twice. if you a third time, you better be paying me.

i prefer the term manwhore , thank you very much.

I disagree! If there's enough communication beforehand, it won't pale.
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Maybe I can only say that because I've a lot of experience with it. I know what my partners expect from me, and they know what makes me happy. The first time you try something isn't always the best time. . . ok, it's probably never the best one, but how can you make it what you want it to be if you're too worried about it not being?

What I'm trying to say is you can't just ditch the whole thing for 'what if it's not what I expect it to be' because what if it is?

[lookout123]

fantasy may mean different things to us then. i know that at one point in time 3 way was a big fantasy for me. i've dipped into that well quite a few times and it was great - but didn't compete with the fantasy.

either way, i'm glad for the experience but i see how it could easily take something from the fantasy if the person goes in expecting too much.