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Old 05-08-2006, 01:14 AM   #18
rkzenrage
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Originally Posted by Stormieweather
Having been raised in a fundamentalist, extremely sheltered home, I can testify that all that 'protecting' from the evils of the world is ineffective in producing an adult with a higher moral core than someone who is exposed to it. By fundamentalist and sheltered, I mean church 3 times a week, an hour a day on my knees for prayer, home schooled until high school and then off to private boarding school, and absolutely no public media (television, radio or fiction) in our home. In my experience, being so sheltered led to fear and guilt, primarily. In addition, I had an insatiable curiosity to experience all that I had missed. I pretty much went hog-wild and pig-crazy once I acquired the nerve to defy my mother, as did many other of the young people I knew in similar situations.

As an adult and mother, I resent other people imposing their moral standards on me. I'm perfectly capable of deciding what is appropriate for my children, thank you very much. Open communication is much more effective than pretending this or that doesn't exist.

In any grocery store, you can walk down the isle and see condoms, pregnancy kits, lubricant, temporary tattoos, cigarettes and liquor. This is somehow alright, but a few magazines with scantily dressed females or suggestive headlines aren't?

Stormie
My wife was raised Free-Will Baptist & I was raised in Central FL... I was going to say exactly what you did, but doubtfully as eloquently and succinctly.
Also, if we want the supermarkets to start putting National Geo and Discovery Magazine at the check-out (the sign that the Apocalypse has ended IMO) we are going to have to stop buying the other mags and buy them instead so Cosmo cannot afford the placement costs. It ain't hard.

Though they are good conversation starters though.... "What's that Daddy"
"Poontang son"
"What's Poontang Daddy?"
Well, son... a great man once said: "Poontang's Expensive" Let's just leave it at that for now ok son? But, never forget this lesson... you will though... lord knows you will...*wipes away tear shed for his future lost innocence and savings* You want some gummy worms?
"YEAH!"

Last edited by rkzenrage; 05-08-2006 at 01:18 AM.
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