How we know what we know: utter denial in human beings

[BlueSky_TheMan]

LOL
I like you skysidhe .

I was offering a chance to introduce a different example in case mine was not perceived as serious enough for other's viewpoints. ALSO: your comic relief could not be considered as going awry unless the person viewing it felt that humor was necessary within comic relief. (just kidding, thats my pitiful attempt at comic relief )


I guess I should rephrase my questions as: Could XOBruce (or anyone) give your thoughts on specifically what is a negative effect of any example of good intentions and what exactly else 9th can know with certainty besides your intentions of love or hurt.

Skysidhe: "I've been the victim of the hairdressers good intentions many times. I swear I never wanted to hear the truth."

If your hairdresser just wanted to use her services as a way to build her wealth , with no regard to the quality of your haircut, that is NOT Good intentions.

Now, lets assume her intentions were good (regardless of their specificity) . One could say that has gone awry because of its bad visual appeal. This is just a perception on someones part. Some will like it others will not. What if you did get a GREAT haircut ? Maybe some lady so enraptured in the essence of your style and sophistication looks at you just a second to long while driving by you. She doesn't see a car turning into her lane because of it and is instantly killed when impacting with it. I know this is a lot of what if and circular reasoning but here is my point: It's ALL just perception and conjecture because we can't see into the minds of others nor can we see the future. Why guess about it ? Why try to "work it all out" ? There is NO way to be certain, so just use your best intentions and let the world work itself out as IT intends.