Kinky? Dom/sub??

[MsSparkie]

I was involved with a BDSM online group, never met in person. (They had Gorean rooms which I was banned from for not obeying the Lords, LOL). One "Master" wanted to send me a plane ticket, for me to go down to one of the southern states, into his barn, where he had his "workbench" set up....and be tied up for a week...etc etc.....

Another in CA talked about "suffocating" me with a plastic bag until I passed out but not die....and raping me with a sharp knife..........

Needless to say that freaked me out and was insane, and I really don't believe they were serious, but they may have been.

My one big weekend in real life in Syracuse NY involved rope, dripping candles, some other tame things......it was a bit disappointing....LOL

I don't want it too extremely violent, or too lame.

Like Goldilocks, I'd like it just right.

LOL