Any Decent Pain Groups?

I have no problem with comments on how I smell when I do... though it is embarrassing when I cannot shower by myself. If I smell it is a fact, as long as it is done with compassion I am ok with it "do you need help bathing? I will help you." is fine. Just telling me I smell is not... that is just cruelty for cruelty sake to make one feel better about themselves at another's expense. I know when I smell, I am not an idiot.
This is not the kind of stuff I am talking about. It is hard to explain. It is micro-managing our lives, trying to butt-into things that have nothing to do with my illness or things that I have a handle on, but she just does not like how I handle them.
I am a very different person than she is, she has a hard time with that... often. For some reason she takes it personally... it makes no damn sense.

They think my wrist may be a torn tendon now... I wonder what the next guess will be?
Getting a bit worried about these five kidney stones. I have not started to pass them yet. I do not want them to get too large to do so.