Because They've Earned It

[DanaC]

LOL... let me crush your spine and then you get to tell me it feels like a massage.

Okay, my point may sound facetious.....but, even with something as serious and devastating as a crushed spine feels different to each person. I cannot know how you feel, you cannot know how I feel, all we can do is extrapolate from our own experience base as to what we think the other person is feeling.