Aikido

[BigV]

Thank you all for your considered responses.

I have already done some of the things you have suggested. For example, I have begun searching with logistical convenience in mind. The dojo I have visited is fairly close to home. I'm not sufficiently well informed to qualify for an opinion as to which style is "best". I will say that what little I have about Aikido is uniformly favorable. I find these descriptive sentences very compatible with my world view:

"Aikido is a peaceful, non-competitive, Japanese martial art that uses graceful movements to neutralize an attack. Aikido training improves your physical ability, stamina, sensitivity, and centeredness."

The dojo I am considering does offer a free lesson, and I like (very much) the suggestion to sit in and watch a few classes. That would be very informative.

I especially appreciate the point that rapport with the Master is crucial. I have had one nice conversation with the owner/teacher/sensei where I'm looking. Of course, that is too little to know much for sure, but it was also entirely favorable. Plus, he comes well recommended. I have one personal recommendation, plus my research on his name and his dojo has revealed only positive evidence.

Rapport with the class will be tougher, but not impossible. In fact, one of the main areas of personal growth I alluded to earlier, handling conflict, doesn't require perfect rapport to provide room for growth. Plus, I'm a get-along guy. Maybe that's the problem. Maybe *I'll* bring the conflict.

This dojo does offer children's classes, and the Master (is that the proper form of address? I must ask.) has even allowed that SonofV may fit into an adult class with me. I would love that, as a father. As a co-student, I don't know how that dynamic would work. Size, and maturity and ability to focus, were his primary concerns, but not age. Also favorable.

Competitions, and rank advancement are very low on my list of priorities. That may change someday. But today it's a good match.

I couldn't begin to evaluate the compatibility of the style practiced and my body. I'm definitely more of a straight ahead type, and not an acrobat. But increased agility and flexibility are things I hope to gain through this training. I hope that's not an unreasonable expectation.

Finally, my choice to post in Philosophy instead of Sports or Entertainment, indicates my inclination to view this endeavor as a physical meditation, more than just exercise or a workout. So far, that seems to be a good match too.