The "bad" place

Sundae · 01-08-2007, 06:51 AM

I reckon you'd make me drop my chips, LJ...... (Essex girl joke - I'll explain if you can't work it out)

I like the bad place. I really do. Not all the time, obviously, but as Ali says it can be highly erotic. It's something that comes up in my fantasies quite often in fact, especially if I've had a few drinks (perhaps it's a relaxation thing).

I've only ever been there with long term partners, so there hasn't been a problem with trust - they've always known that I control the situation at the beginning or it doesn't happen at all. So I dispute the fact that a man has to know what he's doing, as long as one of you does - ideally the person in control.

When I was a teenager, boys used to refer to it as getting your brown wings. The term I heard later was "ruined" i.e. a man would boast that he'd ruined a girl, specifically meaning he's been to her bad place. That had to be explained to me... very odd. The best term is being taken up the Claudia

Undertoad · 01-08-2007, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

The best term is being taken up the Claudia

See Bri, it *would* be possible to be more embarrassed by your own name.

(edit: oh you guys already pointed that out.)

Sheldonrs · 01-08-2007, 10:33 AM

As a gay man I feel compelled to comment. :-)

There is no "Bad" place. Just people who enter it badly. lol!!!

I'm mostly a top but of the times when I bottomed, only a 2-3 times felt good. Usually it just feels like I'm crapping in reverse.

01-08-2007, 06:51 AM	#1
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	I reckon you'd make me drop my chips, LJ...... (Essex girl joke - I'll explain if you can't work it out) I like the bad place. I really do. Not all the time, obviously, but as Ali says it can be highly erotic. It's something that comes up in my fantasies quite often in fact, especially if I've had a few drinks (perhaps it's a relaxation thing). I've only ever been there with long term partners, so there hasn't been a problem with trust - they've always known that I control the situation at the beginning or it doesn't happen at all. So I dispute the fact that a man has to know what he's doing, as long as one of you does - ideally the person in control. When I was a teenager, boys used to refer to it as getting your brown wings. The term I heard later was "ruined" i.e. a man would boast that he'd ruined a girl, specifically meaning he's been to her bad place. That had to be explained to me... very odd. The best term is being taken up the Claudia __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

01-08-2007, 10:33 AM	#3
Sheldonrs Master Dwellar Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 4,412	As a gay man I feel compelled to comment. :-) There is no "Bad" place. Just people who enter it badly. lol!!! I'm mostly a top but of the times when I bottomed, only a 2-3 times felt good. Usually it just feels like I'm crapping in reverse. __________________ Laugh and the world laughs with you; cry and the world laughs AT you.

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