Anxious - Page 3

Aliantha · 03-11-2007, 07:09 PM

Honestly, it sounds to me like she doesn't want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you. Not in her heart of hearts, even though she says so. That's very unfair of her and I know it is very frustrating when people do that to you.

If you want to know what i really think, I'd say you need to just cut off contact with her completely and REALLY make an effort to move on with your life without her. Date other girls. Spend time with your mates doing bloke stuff. Join a club or whatever. Do the stuff you've thought about but have never bothered making the time for because you had her to spend time with.

In short, move on without her and don't think about anything in the future with her. If it's meant to happen it will, but it'd be a shame to miss out on a really great opportunity because you're sitting around waiting for something that in all likelihood is not going to happen.

Aliantha · 03-11-2007, 07:10 PM

One other thing. If you're already depressed, stay off the hooch. It wont help.

xoxoxoBruce · 03-11-2007, 11:41 PM

Senior in High School? way to young and college to go through before any kind of commitment. Foolish to think otherwise. Sorry Man, but you ain't ready either.

freshnesschronic · 03-12-2007, 12:23 AM

Haven't you watched any movies Bruce!! Plus, don't you have any friend's cousins who were the high school couple who stayed together?

Yeah, you're right though. First loves, man. But what's life good for if you can't dream?

xoxoxoBruce · 03-12-2007, 06:12 AM

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Haven't you watched any movies Bruce!! Plus, don't you have any friend's cousins who were the high school couple who stayed together?

Yeah, you're right though. First loves, man. But what's life good for if you can't dream?

I don't know any that pledged eternal devotion in high school, then went to college, and stuck together. Some married right out of high school, some reunited later in life, but continuity through college? No. Besides, college is where the girls explore their lesbian side.

Sundae · 03-12-2007, 01:35 PM

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Haven't you watched any movies Bruce!!

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Besides, college is where the girls explore their lesbian side.

I'd say that's a big yes....

Aliantha · 03-12-2007, 12:38 AM

Quite a number of my family members married their childhood sweethearts. On the whole, they have very good marriages. It doesn't work for everyone though. Definitely didn't work for me. lol

In a lot of ways, it's a bonus not to get into a relationship from an early age because your opportunities for lots of things do tend to be limited. That's my opinion though, and of course there are exceptions to that too.

What it comes down to is that, if it's so much work just to keep the relationship together, it's probably not the right place to be. That being said though, all relationships take a lot of work, but it should be work you enjoy, not work that seems to only end in pain.

03-11-2007, 07:09 PM	#1
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Honestly, it sounds to me like she doesn't want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you. Not in her heart of hearts, even though she says so. That's very unfair of her and I know it is very frustrating when people do that to you. If you want to know what i really think, I'd say you need to just cut off contact with her completely and REALLY make an effort to move on with your life without her. Date other girls. Spend time with your mates doing bloke stuff. Join a club or whatever. Do the stuff you've thought about but have never bothered making the time for because you had her to spend time with. In short, move on without her and don't think about anything in the future with her. If it's meant to happen it will, but it'd be a shame to miss out on a really great opportunity because you're sitting around waiting for something that in all likelihood is not going to happen. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

03-11-2007, 07:10 PM	#2
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	One other thing. If you're already depressed, stay off the hooch. It wont help. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

03-11-2007, 11:41 PM	#3
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Senior in High School? way to young and college to go through before any kind of commitment. Foolish to think otherwise. Sorry Man, but you ain't ready either. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

03-12-2007, 12:38 AM	#7
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Quite a number of my family members married their childhood sweethearts. On the whole, they have very good marriages. It doesn't work for everyone though. Definitely didn't work for me. lol In a lot of ways, it's a bonus not to get into a relationship from an early age because your opportunities for lots of things do tend to be limited. That's my opinion though, and of course there are exceptions to that too. What it comes down to is that, if it's so much work just to keep the relationship together, it's probably not the right place to be. That being said though, all relationships take a lot of work, but it should be work you enjoy, not work that seems to only end in pain. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

03-12-2007, 12:23 AM	#4
freshnesschronic Professor Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,555	Haven't you watched any movies Bruce!! Plus, don't you have any friend's cousins who were the high school couple who stayed together? Yeah, you're right though. First loves, man. But what's life good for if you can't dream?

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