Anxious

xoxoxoBruce · 02-13-2007, 06:43 PM

Can you tell us why she's worth it?
Great sex?
Great cook?
Got a cool car?
Father owns a liquor store?
Trophy wife, feather in your cap?

Seriously, why is this one, and not others, worth being a pet on a leash?

freshnesschronic · 02-13-2007, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Can you tell us why she's worth it?
Great sex?
Great cook?
Got a cool car?
Father owns a liquor store?
Trophy wife, feather in your cap?

Seriously, why is this one, and not others, worth being a pet on a leash?

Check (oh her body makes me wanna...).
CHECK (her cookies are DELISH).
Check (a Scion XA).
No but that doesnt phase me.
No! But she is a looker, but we're the same age and I'm broke so neither.

The reason why? Is just because, she's the one; no one will accept me for who I am as easily as she did and does.

Sundae · 02-14-2007, 06:15 AM

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Originally Posted by freshnesschronic

The reason why? Is just because, she's the one; no one will accept me for who I am as easily as she did and does.

Don't stay with someone because of how they feel about you. If you believe no-one else will ever love you as much or accept you as easily then perhaps you might want to think about changing yourself, rather than choosing someone by default.

Someone else's devotion isn't enough to make a working relationship. When you get tired of being adored, you don't look for greener grass, but the rocky ground outside sure looks like a great challenge. And then you break the heart of someone who was loving, trusting and only wanted to make things easy for you - and no-one forgives you, especially not yourself.

I'm sure your comment wasn't meant seriously and your lady has lots to recommend her (as per the list). But if you do hold her acceptance in high esteem, do think carefully before committing totally.

xoxoxoBruce · 02-14-2007, 05:10 PM

He's got no choice, she's already got him by the balls, but I understand his point. Finding a mate that accepts you when you're not in full tilt courting mode, is a definite plus.

Full tilt gets stressful after a while and makes it very hard to make special gestures for special occasions. If they are only amused when you're "on", sooner or later they'll be disappointed and maybe resentful.

freshnesschronic · 02-14-2007, 05:28 PM

But we feel mutual about each other. I dont want anyone else but her.

If I could imagine the perfect girl, she couldn't even begin to compare with her.

xoxoxoBruce · 02-14-2007, 05:30 PM

Sounds like a perfect match, best of luck.

02-13-2007, 06:43 PM	#1
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Can you tell us why she's worth it? Great sex? Great cook? Got a cool car? Father owns a liquor store? Trophy wife, feather in your cap? Seriously, why is this one, and not others, worth being a pet on a leash? __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

02-14-2007, 05:10 PM	#4
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	He's got no choice, she's already got him by the balls, but I understand his point. Finding a mate that accepts you when you're not in full tilt courting mode, is a definite plus. Full tilt gets stressful after a while and makes it very hard to make special gestures for special occasions. If they are only amused when you're "on", sooner or later they'll be disappointed and maybe resentful. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

02-14-2007, 05:30 PM	#6
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Sounds like a perfect match, best of luck. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

02-14-2007, 05:28 PM	#5
freshnesschronic Professor Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 1,555	But we feel mutual about each other. I dont want anyone else but her. If I could imagine the perfect girl, she couldn't even begin to compare with her.

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