Birthing from Within and Daughter from Afar

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Oh, she's decided. Although it makes me a bit uncomfortable, she's secure in what she wants. She has strong personal reasons for it and there have been no complications. I've mentioned that she could always change her mind, and mentioned my reservations, but 1) it's not my call; and 2) I'd rather be supporting and not argue with her too much.

I don't personally think she is overwrought, just that she tends toward the emotional, like me. Her first birth was natural childbirth--fairly long, which is typical for a first labor, but no complications. She knows what to expect. She went to a birthing class that morning, and I think the experience brought her fears to the forefront. Better to acknowledge them and deal with them before the birth. She was much better today when I spoke to her.

It's just a bit frustrating as a mother, because when your child is upset and hurting--you want to be there. Hugs over the phone are not as satisfying.