I realize that this is supposed to be for tw only...well, I like to give my $0.03 a bit too much.
Yesman, you seem like a perfectly nice person. If tw responds to this, great. But I think you might be taking this a little too personally. He is who he is here on Cellar. While he has capacity for change (as we all do), I don't see it happening any time soon. Just know that so long as you remain a respectful and decent person, your thoughts and opinions will generally be taken seriously by the other regulars. You have a good signal-to-noise ratio.