Men Abortion and Choice

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Originally Posted by DanaC

WE end up in a situation where the dads that the CSA have anything to do with are actually the dads who want to pay fo rtheir kids...but instead of coming up with an arrangents themselves with their partners (particularly if the partner is unemployed) they end up getting stung by the CSA for a massive proportion of their income. Totally unfair.

During my conversation with the senior official I could get to at Domestic Relations, whom shall remain nameless, he admitted that this was a very common situation for which "the system" has no answer. Shit, if it would help I'd donate my overpayment to a deserving mother/family.

{sidenote}Of course my money is already gone and my ex, who is getting "spiritually united" with a guy she's known less than a year already used it as a downpayment on a house. If she got married for real I wouldn't have to pay alimony either. Isn't that nice - I get to pay alimony for another three years instead of putting that money towards the children. Again a situation for which the system has no answer. {sidenote}