I Ducks, do hereby solemnly declare....

[DucksNuts]

Was RK right when he said something along the lines of...... attractive chicks without partners, are single for a reason.....?

A friend of mine (male) said something a long the lines of (and dont shoot the messenger here)...

......really attractive chicks are super high maintenance and too much trouble.

.....really ugly chicks are really insecure and high maintenance, so too much trouble.

....fairly attractive chicks are easy going and comfortable with themselves, they are the ideal partner here.

....when you see a seriously unattractive chick with a hot guy, you have to wonder whether she can suck start a harley, or let herself go when she *landed the big one*.


I guess I am just pondering the big picture here and generally feeling shitty with myself.

[xoxoxoBruce]

Damn... I wish you were closer Ducks. I could probably capitalize on your mood to take advantage of you.

[skysidhe]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

Was RK right when he said something along the lines of...... attractive chicks without partners, are single for a reason.....?

A friend of mine (male) said something a long the lines of (and dont shoot the messenger here)...

......really attractive chicks are super high maintenance and too much trouble.

.....really ugly chicks are really insecure and high maintenance, so too much trouble.

....fairly attractive chicks are easy going and comfortable with themselves, they are the ideal partner here.

....when you see a seriously unattractive chick with a hot guy, you have to wonder whether she can suck start a harley, or let herself go when she *landed the big one*.


I guess I am just pondering the big picture here and generally feeling shitty with myself.

hehe this belonged in the humor thread really.

You did leave out one though. How about fairly attractive chicks who don't know how to trust anymore so run from relationships.

I am torn between thinking this is healthy not to need someone and it really must be unhealthy for not needing anyone.

I am always puzzled at women who can go from one heart ache to another. Their need for love is so strong. If that 'need for love' came in a bottle I'd just take one every now and then and just go prowling for a night.

[Shawnee123]

Originally Posted by skysidhe

I am torn between thinking this is healthy not to need someone and it really must be unhealthy for not needing anyone.

I am always puzzled at women who can go from one heart ache to another. Their need for love is so strong. If that 'need for love' came in a bottle I'd just take one every now and then and just go prowling for a night.

There is the other side you speak of, the "I don't need anyone, I'm perfectly happy and content with myself" yet we long for the bowls of popcorn, and a blanky, a movie, and someone to share it all with.

I too have never understood running into another relationship, another marriage, or whatever. Getting divorced was painful, who wants to set themselves up right away, just out of fear of being alone?

I take great pride in my ability to do it all on my own. But, I'm a human who does wonder if "that guy" is out there.

In the meantime, I guess I'll keep running, screaming, in the other direction. :p

[ZenGum]

Originally Posted by Shawnee123

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In the meantime, I guess I'll keep running, screaming, in the other direction. :p

I remember you now...

[Spexxvet]

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

......really attractive chicks are super high maintenance and too much trouble.

IMO, usually a chick who is super hot on the outside has not had to develop anything substantial on the inside. For example, they can treat a boyfriend poorly, and if they break up, there's the next guy in line, thinking with his little head, ready to date the hot chick.

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

......when you see a seriously unattractive chick with a hot guy, you have to wonder whether she can suck start a harley, or let herself go when she *landed the big one*.

Maybe she's attractive in other ways. And don't underestimate the power of the suck.

Originally Posted by DucksNuts

I guess I am just pondering the big picture here and generally feeling shitty with myself.

Don't feel shitty, we're here for you.

[TheMercenary]

Originally Posted by Spexxvet

IMO, usually a chick who is super hot on the outside has not had to develop anything substantial on the inside. For example, they can treat a boyfriend poorly, and if they break up, there's the next guy in line, thinking with his little head, ready to date the hot chick.

Oh, you mean that old adage that for every hot chick out there, there is some dude that is tired of her crap.