What Iraqis Really Think

[DanaC]

Well...I'm generally quite uncomfortable about PMs being shared with the board and I also know the ease with which a small community like ours can slip into bullying/gang mentality....in this instance, however, I'd say a PM like that constitutes harrassment.

AD if you are reading this, can I very politely ask you to fuck off? How dare you jump to such a conclusion based on a smattering of board replies. Brianna has shared the ups and downs of her illness, from the fear of her first diagnosis, through to seeking advice on treatment, the depression and nasuea of early chemo and the loss of her hair (hence the Buddha sig) right through to the up days of late when she's been able to return to classes and go out and about.

Again, I repeat, fuck off. You took a risk in sending that PM. The risk being if you were wrong (which you are) you could be seriously upsetting someone who is dealing with one of the hardest trials possible in life. That you took that risk tells me that you either a) cannot conceive of being wrong, or b) don't give a shit if you upset someone in those circumstances.

Either way you just lost any respect/liking that was starting to build in my mind. The anti-American stuff, well, we've had that before and its not the worst thing in the world. But you just walked into our bar and insulted our friend, insulted and risked hurting/upsetting deeply. Fuck you.

Originally Posted by DanaC

Well...I'm generally quite uncomfortable about PMs being shared with the board .....

Then you ought to have reserved your judgement until which time that I might sink so low to have posted her MPs to me. I'm guessing that had both her PMs and mine been posted here for you to see, that you would not have continued with this below ...

Originally Posted by DanaC

..... can I very politely ask you to fuck off? .....

Again, I repeat, fuck off. ....

Fuck you.

I'd rather that you NOT "fuck off", Dana. I think you should remain for the duration of the hump and you may come to realize that you have made an error in judgement.

To answer the burning question ... will I post those PMs "in full"? The answer is "no". Your first instinct was the more sensible one and you should have followed that instinct of being "uncomfortable about PMs being shared with the board".

I'll make you a promise never-the-less. If Briana posts ALL of my (AND HER) PMs here ("in full", without any paraphrasing, etc.) ..... and you still feel that I should "fuck off", then I'll do exactly that, never to return. Simple, yes? That should sound fair to you.

Until your profane outburst above you were the one I respected the most on this board, but I'll ignore my distaste for your reply and fall back on both my first impressions of your character and my promise to you, above. It is beause of my better impressions of you that this promise applies to you, Dana, and to no-one else. It is your decision and yours alone.

So ........ ? What will it be?

[lookout123]

I should "fuck off", then I'll do exactly that, never to return.

can we just skip to this part?

you have made the trip from the registration page to the land of unwelcome faster than any poster i remember.