Don't worry about those two, they are immature fiends who live for forum ridiculing. Quite annoying, to people who enjoy quality posts. Flint's sanity has been questioned here recently too.
Just focus on the things that made you decide to break up. That will be the best way to help you move on. Don't think about getting back together, it will only weaken you emotionally and lead you in a vicious cycle with her. I wouldn't do this "best friend" gig, you need time to be away from her, limited contact. Time for yourself, do the things you want to do, be the person you want to be, not what she wanted you to be. Single life is an amazing world that you have to discover for yourself. Moving on is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself. You guys can become real friends again only if you are truly over her. You owe it to yourself.
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