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Old 04-30-2008, 02:15 PM   #1
BigV
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Read it out loud. Do it more a few times.

Mirror is optional.

Writing it is different from reading it silently which is different from speaking and hearing it. This will make a big difference for your confidence in presenting it and help you hear it, which is how the people at the service will experience it.

You're going to be fine, of course. Speaking from the heart like this will be a *good thing*, despite feeling kind of scary and sad. My condolences.
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Old 05-01-2008, 01:03 AM   #2
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Read it out loud. Do it more a few times.

Mirror is optional.

Writing it is different from reading it silently which is different from speaking and hearing it. This will make a big difference for your confidence in presenting it and help you hear it, which is how the people at the service will experience it.
This.

Sun, my condolences on your loss.
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I have no knowledge of the events which you are describing, and if I did have knowledge of them,
I would be unable to discuss them with you now or at any future period.



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