Attention Cellar - Page 3

Undertoad · 05-09-2009, 11:30 PM

um waitamin were these private pics sent as private messages and whatnot

it wasn't clear, have to reconsider

wolf · 05-09-2009, 11:58 PM

Shame there are problems, hope they get resolved well.

Beestie · 05-10-2009, 12:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

um waitamin were these private pics sent as private messages and whatnot

it wasn't clear, have to reconsider

I noticed that right off the bat. A whole 'nuther kettle of fish.

I say we leave it to Red and Labrat to work out. Only they know what's best. And both of them have the full support of the Cellar.

This is the nature of the Cellar. Leave when you must. Return when you can.

xoxoxoBruce · 05-10-2009, 01:18 AM

They're good people that love each other a heap, they'll work it out and live happily ever after. Hopefully they'll find away to share their happiness with us.

Beestie · 05-10-2009, 01:30 AM

As usual, The Elder Statesman of the Cellar (Bruce for the noobs) pretty much nails it.

No one wants Labrat to leave but, as LabRat has demonstrated by example, sacrifices must be made. Hopefully, they will be temporary.

DanaC · 05-10-2009, 04:03 AM

I'd like to echo the last few posts. None of us should be railing against Red here. This is their business. They have their own set of rules like any couple does.

I'd love to see both of them here again. But whatever they decide, they should know we support and respect that.

Big Red · 05-10-2009, 06:04 AM

I would like to make one last comet I appreciate the respect of some and the bashing of others the ones that bash they can f--- off .but when I found out that my wife was sending close up pics of her puss to lookout and others and he sending his dick picutres back to her and then find out that they were having internet and phone sex together I said I was done and leaving are marriage this was her choice not my demand. so thank you to sum and F-c- off to others.
and look out you are about to find out what this hell feels like, the internet is a bitch your right you can find where any body lives and work and your wife is about to find out about your indercresions to all pm emails and pics. so hopefully you can collect her mail in the salon before she does.
I am a nice guy until I get shit on the I become the most vindictive son of a bitch. or what undertoad and jim think a DICK HOLE

morethanpretty · 05-10-2009, 08:31 AM

TMI, big red. UT already said that he was reconsidering his earlier bashing. We didn't need to know the rest of it. I doubt labbers wanted you to post the intimate details of what was going on. That is why she was so obscure about it herself. Only one person was really bashing you for it, and that was UT who said he was reconsidering.

You can ask the mods to remove that post. I would if I were you, if for no other reason except for to keep from embarrasing labbers more than she probably already is.

Trilby · 05-10-2009, 08:38 AM

I believe this has now become a Hands-Off zone and we all should just STFU about all of it.

(zips own mouth and wishes the best for all concerned)

capnhowdy · 05-10-2009, 08:44 AM

What Bri said.
Good luck to Lab and Red. I'll miss you.

Undertoad · 05-10-2009, 09:05 AM

yeah sorry man whole nother kettle of fish. peace out.

LabRat · 05-10-2009, 09:06 AM

Sorry for the confusion. I was asked to explain to you what I did, but was too brief.

Red is in *no way* at fault here. I am, 100%. Support him, he deserves it, not me. I am the one who broke promises and lied. Please, be mad at me, call me names, then learn from my collosal fuck up.

Like I said in RichLevy's thread, it was fun to hear praise from others besides just my husband. I gave me a high. I ended up taking it too far and had an inappropriate email exhange (including sending explicit pictures) with another dwellar behind my husband's back. He found out about it and asked me to stay out of the cellar and never to talk to him again. I agreed. Eventually I was able to come back here and participate again.

Unfortunately, I couldn't resist the temptation and ended up breaking the promise I made and had another series of emails and pic exchanges (not phone sex) with that same dwellar. So, like an alcoholic who can't trust herself to be able to maintain control, I need to stop going where the temptation is.

I hate myself right now for allowing this to happen a second time. I mean, jesus, really? Instead of communicating with my husband about things that were bothering me so that we could work on them, I went outside my marrage. I can't begin to describe the self-loathing I have right now. The one thing I value above all else is honesty, and here I am, the biggest hypocrite in the universe.

I got my priorities all screwed up, and ended up crushing the one person in my life whom I am supposed to put above all others. Not to mention what kind of message am I sending to my daughter... I am nothing but a stupid whore.

I fucked up my life, hopefully someone can learn from this and not do the same to theirs. I beg everyone's forgiveness, although I deserve none.

Sundae · 05-10-2009, 09:21 AM

FWIW - I've fucked up worse than that in my life, so no judgements here.
Just love for you, hoping you can find some peace with yourself and your husband.

Good luck with this and everything in the future if I don't hear from you again.

TheMercenary · 05-10-2009, 09:55 AM

Wow. Missed this. Labrat you will be greatly missed. Thanks for the Vodka.

zippyt · 05-10-2009, 10:49 AM

Sorry to hear this , You guys be well

05-09-2009, 11:58 PM	#32
wolf lobber of scimitars Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Phila Burbs Posts: 20,774	Shame there are problems, hope they get resolved well. __________________ wolf eht htiw og "Conspiracies are the norm, not the exception." --G. Edward Griffin The Creature from Jekyll Island High Priestess of the Church of the Whale Penis

05-10-2009, 01:18 AM	#34
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	They're good people that love each other a heap, they'll work it out and live happily ever after. Hopefully they'll find away to share their happiness with us. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

05-10-2009, 01:30 AM	#35
Beestie -◊\|≡·∙■·∙≡\|◊- Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Parts unknown. Posts: 4,081	As usual, The Elder Statesman of the Cellar (Bruce for the noobs) pretty much nails it. No one wants Labrat to leave but, as LabRat has demonstrated by example, sacrifices must be made. Hopefully, they will be temporary. __________________ ♠ ♥ ♣ ♦

05-10-2009, 08:31 AM	#38
morethanpretty Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you. Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: little town (but not the littlest) in texas Posts: 2,957	TMI, big red. UT already said that he was reconsidering his earlier bashing. We didn't need to know the rest of it. I doubt labbers wanted you to post the intimate details of what was going on. That is why she was so obscure about it herself. Only one person was really bashing you for it, and that was UT who said he was reconsidering. You can ask the mods to remove that post. I would if I were you, if for no other reason except for to keep from embarrasing labbers more than she probably already is. __________________ Addicts may suck dick for coke, but love came up with the idea to put a dick in there to begin with. -Jack O'Brien

05-10-2009, 08:38 AM	#39
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I believe this has now become a Hands-Off zone and we all should just STFU about all of it. (zips own mouth and wishes the best for all concerned) __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

05-09-2009, 11:30 PM	#31
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	um waitamin were these private pics sent as private messages and whatnot it wasn't clear, have to reconsider

05-10-2009, 06:04 AM	#37
Big Red Fresh Incumbent Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Iowa Posts: 28	I would like to make one last comet I appreciate the respect of some and the bashing of others the ones that bash they can f--- off .but when I found out that my wife was sending close up pics of her puss to lookout and others and he sending his dick picutres back to her and then find out that they were having internet and phone sex together I said I was done and leaving are marriage this was her choice not my demand. so thank you to sum and F-c- off to others. and look out you are about to find out what this hell feels like, the internet is a bitch your right you can find where any body lives and work and your wife is about to find out about your indercresions to all pm emails and pics. so hopefully you can collect her mail in the salon before she does. I am a nice guy until I get shit on the I become the most vindictive son of a bitch. or what undertoad and jim think a DICK HOLE

05-10-2009, 08:44 AM	#40
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	What Bri said. Good luck to Lab and Red. I'll miss you. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

05-10-2009, 09:05 AM	#41
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	yeah sorry man whole nother kettle of fish. peace out.

05-10-2009, 09:06 AM	#42
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	Sorry for the confusion. I was asked to explain to you what I did, but was too brief. Red is in no way at fault here. I am, 100%. Support him, he deserves it, not me. I am the one who broke promises and lied. Please, be mad at me, call me names, then learn from my collosal fuck up. Like I said in RichLevy's thread, it was fun to hear praise from others besides just my husband. I gave me a high. I ended up taking it too far and had an inappropriate email exhange (including sending explicit pictures) with another dwellar behind my husband's back. He found out about it and asked me to stay out of the cellar and never to talk to him again. I agreed. Eventually I was able to come back here and participate again. Unfortunately, I couldn't resist the temptation and ended up breaking the promise I made and had another series of emails and pic exchanges (not phone sex) with that same dwellar. So, like an alcoholic who can't trust herself to be able to maintain control, I need to stop going where the temptation is. I hate myself right now for allowing this to happen a second time. I mean, jesus, really? Instead of communicating with my husband about things that were bothering me so that we could work on them, I went outside my marrage. I can't begin to describe the self-loathing I have right now. The one thing I value above all else is honesty, and here I am, the biggest hypocrite in the universe. I got my priorities all screwed up, and ended up crushing the one person in my life whom I am supposed to put above all others. Not to mention what kind of message am I sending to my daughter... I am nothing but a stupid whore. I fucked up my life, hopefully someone can learn from this and not do the same to theirs. I beg everyone's forgiveness, although I deserve none. __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

05-10-2009, 09:21 AM	#43
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	FWIW - I've fucked up worse than that in my life, so no judgements here. Just love for you, hoping you can find some peace with yourself and your husband. Good luck with this and everything in the future if I don't hear from you again. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

05-10-2009, 09:55 AM	#44
TheMercenary “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia Posts: 21,393	Wow. Missed this. Labrat you will be greatly missed. Thanks for the Vodka. __________________ Anyone but the this most fuked up President in History in 2012!

05-10-2009, 10:49 AM	#45
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	Sorry to hear this , You guys be well __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

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