Most & Least Favorite Ways to Cope

[daniwong]

Originally posted by OnyxCougar
Well, I've never been one of those types of people. I've never been the kind of person that thinks you should be able to read my mind. I'll tell you what my problem is.

Ditto - again school of hard knocks - learned this the hard way. I know my BF is not a mind reader. But - if I'm pissed - I tend to try and cool down and think my way through it and then have a normal conversation as opposed to a screaming match. Kinda drives him buggy. I don't yell and I don't like having angry discussions - nothing is solved. He made the comment once that I was an "Ice princess" and that nothing fazed me. While it is true that I tend not to let little shit bother me, I also don't like having anger taken out on me - so I don't do it to others. Drives him buggy because I won't fight with him. LOL.