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|  06-12-2009, 09:44 PM | #1 | 
| “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia 
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				Damm Interesting
			 
			
			I couldn't find the old thread with the post from the former Cellar member. But this is a great post from his website: The Total Perspective Vortex Most people think of the "mentally disordered" as a delusional lot, holding bizarre and irrational ideas about themselves and the world around them. Isn’t a mental disorder, after all, an impairment or a distortion in thought or perception? This is what we tend to think, and for most of modern psychology's history, the experts have agreed; realistic perceptions have been considered essential to good mental health. More recently, however, research has arisen that challenges this common-sense notion. In 1988, psychologists Shelly Taylor and Jonathon Brown published an article making the somewhat disturbing claim that positive self-deception is a normal and beneficial part of most people’s everyday outlook. They suggested that average people hold cognitive biases in three key areas: a) viewing themselves in unrealistically positive terms; b) believing they have more control over their environment than they actually do; and c) holding views about the future that are more positive than the evidence can justify. The typical person, it seems, depends on these happy delusions for the self-esteem needed to function through a normal day. It’s when the fantasies start to unravel that problems arise. continues: http://www.damninteresting.com/?p=864#more-864 
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|  06-12-2009, 10:00 PM | #2 | 
| Doctor Wtf Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Badelaide, Baustralia 
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			Seems like a thorough and fancy way of saying, the pessimist is more often correct, but the optimist is more often happy and successful.
		 
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|  06-12-2009, 11:46 PM | #3 | 
| dar512 is now Pete Zicato Join Date: May 2003 Location: Chicago suburb 
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			Elwood P. Dowd: Years ago my mother used to say to me, she'd say, "In this world, Elwood, you must be" - she always called me Elwood - "In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant." Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me.
		 
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|  06-13-2009, 05:06 AM | #4 | 
| The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 
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			Elwood is right, being obviously smart makes people envious and you a target. Being pleasant puts people at ease. then you can steal their wallet. 
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|  06-15-2009, 09:33 PM | #5 | 
| Horrible Bastard Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: High Desert, Arizona 
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|  06-15-2009, 09:42 PM | #6 | |
| We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire 
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			That's a fantastic picture.
		 
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|  06-15-2009, 09:43 PM | #7 | 
| Horrible Bastard Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: High Desert, Arizona 
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			It's too bad HIMEOBS doesn't exist.  That looks like a sweet ride.
		 
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|  06-15-2009, 09:49 PM | #9 | 
| Horrible Bastard Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: High Desert, Arizona 
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|  06-16-2009, 02:54 PM | #10 | 
| NSABFD Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: MS. usa 
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			That would be from Hot pastrami's site. Right??
		 
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