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| View Poll Results: What shows greater intimacy? | |||
| I'm a woman and oral sex is more intimate |      | 1 | 8.33% | 
| I'm a woman and genital sex is more intimate |      | 3 | 25.00% | 
| I'm a man and oral sex is more intimate |      | 3 | 25.00% | 
| I'm a man and genital sex is more intimate |      | 5 | 41.67% | 
| Other: Write in below |      | 0 | 0% | 
| Voters: 12. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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|  11-10-2010, 10:27 PM | #1 | 
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			Here's a question for the dwellars about sexual intimacy. Do you consider oral sex more or less intimate than genital sex? There is the old saying "eating ain't cheating" but this isn't about cheating per se, but about whether you feel there is a deeper connection, between partners, with one act or another. So here's an anonymous poll. (Sorry Shel, it's not an anonymous pole) 
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|  11-11-2010, 12:25 AM | #2 | 
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			Giving or receiving?
		 
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|  11-11-2010, 03:42 AM | #3 | |
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			More intimate.
		 
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|  11-11-2010, 03:56 AM | #4 | 
| polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire 
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			Like Bruce says - giving or receiving? To me, giving a blowjob is far less intimate than sex. Receiving... more. Not as much of a difference as giving, but certainly more. | 
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|  11-11-2010, 07:41 AM | #5 | 
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			OK Mod, can you open up the poll so I can change the options to reflect giving or receiving?
		 
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|  11-11-2010, 08:48 AM | #6 | 
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			I don't think so, maybe UT can?
		 
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|  11-11-2010, 11:06 AM | #7 | 
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|  11-11-2010, 11:10 AM | #8 | 
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			I was thinking this was going to be about kissing cousins....
		 
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|  11-11-2010, 11:52 AM | #9 | 
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			Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?
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|  11-11-2010, 12:45 PM | #10 | 
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|  11-11-2010, 12:53 PM | #11 | 
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|  11-11-2010, 01:38 PM | #12 | |
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 if female, is giving oral more intimate vs if female, is receiving oral more intimate if male, is giving oral more intimate if male, is receiving oral more intimate if female, is having genital more intimate if male, is having genital more intimate other Not sure what this might prove but ... 
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|  11-11-2010, 02:23 PM | #13 | 
| Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia 
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			aw crap well we would have to zero out the votes
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|  11-11-2010, 02:27 PM | #14 | 
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			How about a new and improved thread linked here.
		 
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|  11-11-2010, 03:04 PM | #15 | 
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			Sounds good.
		 
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