Need advice for a friend, quick!

[staceyv]

she should confront the other woman or have a friend go and have a little chat with her. she HAS to find out if there is anything between them, because if there is, she should leave him. no ifs, ands or buts. if he's cheating on her now, he'll do it again in the future, or even if he didn't, she would probably never be able to trust him again or feel the same. a good way to talk to the other woman maybe would be to act like her husband confessed already. go to the other woman and say "i know all about you two. i've already accepted it and i don't think it's your fault. it's my husband's fault. i just want to know how long you two have been fooling aroung for my peace of mind..."so this way, the homewrecker will think the wife already knows about it and maybe won't bother to deny it or cover it up, but will instead go along with it and say something like "only for a month.." or whatever. i don't know...just an idea. all i know is that she HAS to find out, one way or another.