Dweller NSFW 2011 - Page 25

DanaC · 03-31-2011, 10:31 PM

I think their hands are probably a bit too busy to post right now...

TheMercenary · 03-31-2011, 10:33 PM

Hell, given the response of the people here, maybe we should just eliminate this whole thread and idea that any dwellers should be allowed to post nudie pics at all. I did it one time and got totally burned by a scumbag dweller. It really is not worth the risk or confrontation that it creates IMHO.

Aliantha · 03-31-2011, 10:35 PM

Was that the one of your wifes arse? I still remember that picture.

She has a nice arse.

TheMercenary · 03-31-2011, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha

Was that the one of your wifes arse? I still remember that picture.

She has a nice arse.

Breasts. I tried to get them to delete it but could not get any action after the attacks on me.

Aliantha · 03-31-2011, 10:39 PM

I don't remember the boobs. Just the arse. Did I tell you I think your wife has a nice arse? lol

Personally, I wouldn't post a pic in this thread anymore. It's gone a long way from the fun and mild flirting that it used to have.

DanaC · 03-31-2011, 10:41 PM

I think the point was that you posted your wife instead of yourself :-p
Dweller nsfw

I posted a pic and was glad I did

TheMercenary · 03-31-2011, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC

I think the point was that you posted your wife instead of yourself :-p
Dweller nsfw

I posted a pic and was glad I did

Well that makes it all right to call my wife names and attack me personally, basically, not enjoy the pic for it's face value, but to call my wife names. I am not sure that was the intent of the thread or the response I expected. But hey, that was years ago. Drop it.

DanaC · 03-31-2011, 10:48 PM

I don't remember any namecalling. In that case forget my comment. The only thing I remember is that she was drop dead gorgeous and that there was a distinct lack of cock on show:-p

plthijinx · 04-01-2011, 01:39 AM

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Originally Posted by DanaC

I posted a pic and was glad I did

where? in this thread? ftr i have too. anon.

xoxoxoBruce · 04-01-2011, 02:13 AM

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Originally Posted by DanaC

I think their hands are probably a bit too busy to post right now...

Bingo!

DanaC · 04-01-2011, 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by plthijinx

where? in this thread? ftr i have too. anon.

Nah. Was a year or so ago. Dwellar NSFW 2009 I think. I seem to recall it was when I'd got my little casio camera ... shortly before I broke it trying to take a pic of my arse ;p

[eta] it was this one:
http://cellar.org/showpost.php?p=605253&postcount=358

Undertoad · 04-01-2011, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Ib

Trans* erasure

Firstly, you do realize that the Cellar was co-founded by a T and has had a high percentage of T users since the beginning.

I find this term to be heavily ironic, because nobody erases the T as much as the post-op! Pre-op womyn are often highly integrated into a support group of fellow Ts that, post-op, they are embarrassed by, and fall away from within weeks. A "real" woman finds being confused for a man more hurtful than offensive, because the proof is in the pudding. And if she wants to prove her status she can just show her pudding, which everyone noticed our anonymous poster did not do.

Compare that reaction to:

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I have been struggling with my own gender identity lately, and i'm increasingly sure i'm at least not a cis male, and i know for sure, if i were to post a picture of myself as a female, the MOST offensive and hurtful thing for all the initial responses to be would be "no thats a man."

I think this is a reaction you should spend time getting over. The truth is that mankind *sigh* humankind, and really, all living beasts on the planet are specifically designed to pay attention to, and recognize, gender differences. Men, in particular, have brains designed to recognize sexual maturity.

That's right ladies: we the "standard" males are not staring at your tits because we like to (although we do), we are staring because millions of years of evolution have designed us to notice these signs. It's not because of some lack of sophistication or evolved thought. It's all designed this way, because if we hit it at the moment of biological readiness, the species is more likely to continue than if we wait.

Remarkably, scientists have now shown that a "standard" male's behavior changes when a woman he is pursuing is ovulating. The woman doesn't even know it, but she sends tiny different signals. The man doesn't even know it, but he receives them.

Similarly, a "standard" guy in an adult book shop who reaches the end of the het material and accidentally wanders into the gay section, is instinctively repulsed. So much so that we shiver and avert our eyes and retract without thinking about it. Even a cultured male who understands the basis of homosexuality and knows that it is not a big deal and is not threatened by it, will have this reaction.

So when Sheldon posts a cock-chugging pic, yes, after my 47 years of fighting for gay rights, my hundreds of gay friends and acquaintances, and ALL the time I've spent in theatre groups -- my instinctive reaction is FUCK, I DIDN'T REALLY WANT TO SEE THAT.

I don't particularly *mind* terribly, and I would never ever complain. In fact I work hard to make sure he has a forum to post it and would always fight for his ability to do so. But I would have preferred not to see it. And I love Sheldon like a brother. He's awesome, intelligent, funny, a real character.

Our thousands of years of culture has tried to put a layer of respectable behavior on top of these base, reptile-brain reactions, and sometimes we succeed at doing this. But to be offended by such a reaction is like being angry at the river for only flowing one way. Paddle against the stream if you must, but know that it'll be a hard time, and the river isn't going to change paths, no matter how you rage at it.

Spexxvet · 04-01-2011, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by lookout123

Maybe we should have a single "Dwellars' Coming of Age Angst" forum for stuff like this. This thread is for the bits and pieces... Let's get back on track.

Maybe we should have a single "unemployed violence mongers who are angry at the world" forum for people like you.

Sheldonrs · 04-01-2011, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Ibram

welcome to exactly what i mean. standing up against offensive, bigoted posting is dismissed as coming of age angst. welcome to the new face of the cellar.

In order to stand up for what I believe in and for what this thread is SUPPOSED to be about, I would like to see more cock pics of yours Ibram. :-) Just for the sake of normallcy restoration, you understand.

DanaC · 04-01-2011, 08:27 AM

I'd like to second Sheldon's motion... so to speak.

03-31-2011, 10:33 PM	#362
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03-31-2011, 10:35 PM	#363
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Was that the one of your wifes arse? I still remember that picture. She has a nice arse. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

03-31-2011, 10:39 PM	#365
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	I don't remember the boobs. Just the arse. Did I tell you I think your wife has a nice arse? lol Personally, I wouldn't post a pic in this thread anymore. It's gone a long way from the fun and mild flirting that it used to have. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

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