What is consuming your brain and leaving it mush?

[limey]

Originally Posted by infinite monkey

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that disapproving bird-head cocked to the side look..

First off, realise that the expression means that the person has, quite literally, a hare up her arse. One of those giant rabbit things? Wriggling and kicking and boxing because it wants OUT. Remembering this when she is speaking to you will make watching her a more pleasurable experience.

Originally Posted by infinite monkey

... mystically expected to know inside and out?

...Of course you weren't aware. No one told you. I expect you to know things through osmosis.

This stuff - if this is what she's thinking or saying then she is quite simply mad. Not cross, just totally disconnected with the way jobs work, the world works, etc. Not. In. The. Real. World. And therefore not able validly to assess your input.
But don't forget she also has a hare up her arse.
Hope this helps.