Tightening the reins without making it appear so

[Griff]

Originally Posted by monster

If the leash is too tight, it cuts off circulation and induces panic.

I went to a training with Jed Baker on Friday. He had the same take-away. The kid has to have hope for things to turn around.

http://www.socialskillstrainingproject.com/

It looks like his server is down, but you may find something there. He encouraged us to contact him with specific questions. He has a lot of experience with the Aspy crowd.