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On the other hand, sometimes they are disruptive precisely because they require a different type of environment than the one that they are being given. Yes, the abusive household set the dominoes up, but the behavioral opportunities of the one-size-fits-all classroom model allows them to fall. I think the real problem is that the rehabilitative environment they really need--extra emotional support and retraining, that is, not extra punishment--is not something the schools can realistically afford. And every publicly-funded attempt I've seen at such an environment ends up being somewhere between a slight and a colossal failure.
That said, I'm obviously biased because I took my kids out of the system at the first available opportunity. In the same way that being in the abusive environment doesn't magically make the abused kids more resilient to abuse, I don't believe that being in a disruptive school environment will teach them how to deal with disruptive people. |
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I sure my mother would have jumped at the chance to remove some of the "bad influences" in my youth.
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We have to go back, Kate!
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I don't like a lot of the rhetoric involved either, in public dicussions about classroom discipline. It's a heartbeat away from 'bad kids shouldn't be allowed in our schools ruining good kids' education'. Meanwhile, as politicians make hardline speeches, funding to help kids who are struggling with the school environment gets stripped further and further back.
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To shreds, you say?
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There doesn't seem to be a review of the underlying assumptions about education, they are taken as sound and are a given. Yet there is, I think, the same flaw that occurs when a liberal measures a conservative by liberal metrics rather than conservative metrics. E.g. "Monsanto shouldn't do X because it is bad for the environment." Yes, well according to your values the relative health of the environment is cause for concern and should be taken into account when deciding a course of action. For Monsanto, that has nothing to do at all with the company's decision making. Profitability is what drives their decision making so an appeal to the environment is as relevant to them as arguing that they should change their behavior because ABC did not order another season of Marvel's Agents of SHIELD. To look at our educational system and wonder why there are not protocols in place for accommodating square pegs rather than forcing them into round holes presumes that such accommodating of differences in students is a value of the system when it is not. See bold excerpts below Part of the problem is the failure of the the educational model but a bigger question that doesn't seem to be asked is "Why the ever increasing legion of square pegs?" Were they always there or are there more now? I believe what needs to happen is to completely redesign education and it needs to be done by people who are not products of the educational system. Some of the most significant design breakthroughs come from people who have never seen the box in the first place so they don't need to think outside of it. To them, there is no box at all. From a paper by John Taylor Gatto: The bold is mine. Quote:
You might also say, it is like arguing that the educational system should accommodate outliers and misfits because oranges are a fruit.
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