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Old 08-12-2010, 04:22 PM   #31
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Someone you once knew wants nothing to do with you and you have dedicated alot of time to the relationship and only recently find out that.. she's married...
Can you elaborate on what you think your possible courses of action might be here? It seems pretty obvious that "respect her wishes, and leave her alone" is the correct choice. I can't think of any others. There aren't any others.
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:15 PM   #32
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Hopefully it doesn't really matter. If she has half a brain, she's already filing for another restraining order right this minute.
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:21 PM   #33
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Well... I was getting mix signals from the begging.. the restraining order was
was because she thought I was involved in some sort of cult, which was not true, unless I was brain washed.. therefore I have kept my distance from the begging.. and I think I was brain washed... so now I'm left with nothing but doubt and it's just difficult to not think what could have been...
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:25 PM   #34
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Uh dude- Do you have a cat or hamster or something else in your life to think about other than some girl from 5+ years ago that thought so little of you as to get a restraining order to keep you away from her?

WTF are you thinking about. Let it go. Look forward. You can't go back anyway. What was will never be. Its in the past - LEAVE IT THERE>
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:29 PM   #35
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Trust Me I'm over it... the whole situation just rattles my mind sometimes.. to me it's like a mystery that I must solve and the only clue I have is her....
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:30 PM   #36
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OK, noone is actually buying any of this story, right? Right?
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:40 PM   #37
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At the same time I don't want to have anything to do with her... I dunno
this is what it amounts to.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3b4QXey_m5c
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Old 08-12-2010, 06:00 PM   #38
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OK, noone is actually buying any of this story, right? Right?
Right.
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Old 08-12-2010, 06:10 PM   #39
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I get a mari****o vibe from this nutter.
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Old 08-12-2010, 06:21 PM   #40
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Trust Me I'm over it... the whole situation just rattles my mind sometimes.. to me it's like a mystery that I must solve and the only clue I have is her....
No, you're not over it. You just admitted that you aren't over it--in the same breath. There is no mystery. There is nothing to solve. You freaked this girl out so bad (for whatever reason) that she has taken drastic measures to avoid ALL CONTACT with you.

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Well... I was getting mix signals from the begging.. the restraining order was
was because she thought I was involved in some sort of cult, which was not true, unless I was brain washed.. therefore I have kept my distance from the begging.. and I think I was brain washed... so now I'm left with nothing but doubt and it's just difficult to not think what could have been...
There are no mixed signals. These are CLEAR SIGNALS. There should be NO DOUBT, there is NOTHING that "could have" or will EVER, EVER, EVER, in a MILLION YEARS, "be" between you and this person. EVER.

If I was this girl I would be buying a gun. THAT IS HOW FUCKING CRAZY YOU SOUND.
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Old 08-12-2010, 06:25 PM   #41
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Imagine going before a judge and asking for a restraining order because you think your "friend" is in a cult. Think you'd be walking away with one? Good for 5 YEARS?
Yeah, no.
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Old 08-12-2010, 07:03 PM   #42
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So I guess I should get a restraining order myself against the people who started the whole mess then.. hmm Rockefeller Construction. Trust me there is more to this than just a bunch of mixed up rules I have no intention of ever talking to her again until I get married then I am going to invite her on a double date to the ballet.
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Old 08-12-2010, 07:29 PM   #43
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I think I need to get a restraining order
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Old 08-12-2010, 07:32 PM   #44
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Collect them all!
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Old 08-12-2010, 07:35 PM   #45
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Wot everyone else said, with a firm slap up the back of the head for emphasis.


Leave past-woman alone. Never contact. Maybe you need some counselling, or psychotherapy, if you really were brainwashed in a cult.
Or go find some other chick and bang her into the middle of next week, if that will take your mind off things.
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