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You know how you women always have pressure us guys into receiving oral. It's always a difficult argument to have with us, I know. We just don't like receiving. It makes us feel less sexy. So that's part of where the thing goes off the track with us. Hard wiring. So to speak. Mens and Wimmens Be Different!! |
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Well - I have only ever had a guy go down on me after I've been persuaded and I fucking hated it. Really not something I have ever wanted any guy to do ever.
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That article I posted a link to is really interesting on that score.
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01-16-2018, 06:13 PM | #96 |
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Tim Gunn said it. But he's broadly asexual, not just anti-oral.
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01-16-2018, 06:24 PM | #97 |
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WTF !?! You just shattered my dreams, drove a stake through my heart.
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01-16-2018, 06:32 PM | #98 |
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If God had not intended for man to eat pussy, he wouldn't have made it look like a taco.
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01-16-2018, 07:25 PM | #99 | |
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Again that may be biological difference - or that men and women grow up with different signals and form different relationships with their bodies because of that. We develop different hang ups because we are subject to different assumptions and messages.
I'm sure there are plenty of women out there who do like it
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01-16-2018, 08:02 PM | #100 |
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Men and women are different. But, are we saying men just can't understand even the most basic things about women that they are literally blanketing the airwaves and news cycles with?? PLEASE RESPECT US, PLEASE TREAT US WITH RESPECT. And men are just like, "huh huh, I like it when my wiener gets touched and you should like the same things, with your own body--you should have the same boundaries we do, and if you don't, well DURR DUHRRR me brain not hear that." Come on, grow up.
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The message of the #MeToo movement was "sexual abuse and workplace harassment will not longer go unreported." Saying it's about general "respect" is a serious dilution/broadening of that which is not good for the movement.
Ansari is a self-described feminist man, celebrates the #MeToo movement and is considered woke. He probably believed he was respecting her. He texted her the next day (unprovoked - hurr durrr neanderthal man would not text or call, and that would be seen as a sign of... disrespect) and he was surprised to find it didn't go well. |
01-16-2018, 10:52 PM | #102 |
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How do you allow someone to stick their fingers down your throat repeatedly against your will. Wouldn't you pretty much just close your mouth after the first time?
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I heard that Ansari's career will be hurt because millennial women are a lot of his fan base and they don't like this story. Well guess what--millennials can *decide for themselves* that they *don't like someone's behavior* and they *don't like that person* It's. That. Simple. Like, I'm sorry you're a creepy predator and people don't like creepy predators?? HaHa!! it doesn't work that way
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01-17-2018, 12:00 AM | #105 |
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I guess she wasn't very good a letting him know. I guess she isn't very good at shutting her mouth if she didn't want fingers or a dick in there... multiple times.
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