Friends of the Opposite Sex

[welthqa]

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

Men that cannot have female friends without wanting to fuck them, regardless of how attractive they may or may not be, are not fully evolved.
You choose how you relate to others.

You're throwing around words without regard to meaning. If a man does not want to fuck an attractive woman, he is genetically flawed. An evolutionary dead end. The next step in evolution isn't going to be abstention from sex.
Why wouldn't you want to have sex with friends? Shouldn't that be better than having sex with strangers or people you don't get along with?

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

They both feel you're cheating on them. Don't discount the emotional, it's as least as important as the physical.

As far as cheating goes,(and it can go a long way) I've found that women love to talk about the emotional being on par with the physical, but I only seem to get really in trouble for the physical...

[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally Posted by welthqa

As far as cheating goes,(and it can go a long way) I've found that women love to talk about the emotional being on par with the physical, but I only seem to get really in trouble for the physical...

Have your significant other walk into a bar or restaurant and find you chatting with a member of the opposite sex. You'll be in big trouble.

Oh, and welcome to the Cellar, welthqa.

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Have your significant other walk into a bar or restaurant and find you chatting with a member of the opposite sex. You'll be in big trouble.

Oh, and welcome to the Cellar, welthqa.

When I was in better condition that was not an odd occurrence for us at all. We would just invite her to sit down and join us or vice versa.
Our wedding parties were mixed sex. Friends are about personality and interests for those who think outside of their pants.

[Shawnee123]

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

Friends are about personality and interests for those who think outside of their pants.

Well said, rkz!

[Madman]

Originally Posted by rkzenrage

Men that cannot have female friends without wanting to fuck them, regardless of how attractive they may or may not be, are not fully evolved.
You choose how you relate to others.

Originally Posted by welthqa

You're throwing around words without regard to meaning. If a man does not want to fuck an attractive woman, he is genetically flawed. An evolutionary dead end. The next step in evolution isn't going to be abstention from sex.
Why wouldn't you want to have sex with friends? Shouldn't that be better than having sex with strangers or people you don't get along with?

It appears I am genetically flawed. Personally, I call it "mature behavior." I have several female friends. I don't want to "fuck" them. They don't want to "do the nasty" with me either. Now, we don't "hang out" together, we don't really "party" together. More of a "professional" relationship rather than a "social" relationship.

Personally, I don't want to "have sex" with my friends. They're my friends.

[lumberjim]

Originally Posted by Madman

It appears I am genetically flawed. Personally, I call it "mature behavior." I have several female friends. I don't want to "fuck" them. They don't want to "do the nasty" with me either. Now, we don't "hang out" together, we don't really "party" together. More of a "professional" relationship rather than a "social" relationship.

Personally, I don't want to "have sex" with my friends. They're my friends.

If you don't hang out with them, they're not your friends, are they? Those are called co-workers. Genetically speaking, if that were true, then yes, you'd be flawed. It is the natural state for us to consider those we encounter. It can be repressed, yes....but that's so ......repressive. Mature behavior begins when you choose to not act on the impulse. Saying you don't want to is either a lie or a defect.

*the above assumes that you find them attractive

[Madman]

Originally Posted by lumberjim

If you don't hang out with them, they're not your friends, are they? Those are called co-workers. Genetically speaking, if that were true, then yes, you'd be flawed. It is the natural state for us to consider those we encounter. It can be repressed, yes....but that's so ......repressive. Mature behavior begins when you choose to not act on the impulse. Saying you don't want to is either a lie or a defect.

*the above assumes that you find them attractive

Fucking thing timed out on me... Lost my post.

Oh well. Probably a good thing anyway. Since I still feel obgligated to answer this bullshit - I will.

In a nutshell and to the point. What are you talking about? Are you saying co-workers can't be friends? Are you saying that because I don't want to "fuck" my friend that there is something wrong with me? That's pretty "fucked up." Truth is, I may be curious about what they "look like" but that doesn't say anything about wanting to "fuck them." Maybe you would like to "fuck" your neighbor, co-worker or second cousin. If that would be "normal" behavior - Oh, "Genitically Speaking" for you.

Genitically speaking? Oh, that's good! Really good! Please, explain Genetics to us - Genetically Speaking that is. Are you sure the correct term for this is "Genetics?" Try "Human Behavior."

Personally, I don't think you have a scientific clue about what it is you are trying to talk about.

So, don't assume you know someone when you don't that someone at all.

[lumberjim]

Originally Posted by Madman

It appears I am genetically flawed. Personally, I call it "mature behavior." I have several female friends. I don't want to "fuck" them. They don't want to "do the nasty" with me either. Now, we don't "hang out" together, we don't really "party" together. More of a "professional" relationship rather than a "social" relationship. Personally, I don't want to "have sex" with my friends. They're my friends.

Originally Posted by lumberjim

If you don't hang out with them, they're not your friends, are they? Those are called co-workers. Genetically speaking, if that were true, then yes, you'd be flawed. It is the natural state for us to consider those we encounter. It can be repressed, yes....but that's so ......repressive. Mature behavior begins when you choose to not act on the impulse. Saying you don't want to is either a lie or a defect.

*the above assumes that you find them attractive

Originally Posted by Madman

Fucking thing timed out on me... Lost my post.

Oh well. Probably a good thing anyway. Since I still feel obgligated to answer this bullshit - I will.

In a nutshell and to the point. What are you talking about? Are you saying co-workers can't be friends? Are you saying that because I don't want to "fuck" my friend that there is something wrong with me? That's pretty "fucked up." Truth is, I may be curious about what they "look like" but that doesn't say anything about wanting to "fuck them." Maybe you would like to "fuck" your neighbor, co-worker or second cousin. If that would be "normal" behavior - Oh, "Genitically Speaking" for you.

Genitically speaking? Oh, that's good! Really good! Please, explain Genetics to us - Genetically Speaking that is. Are you sure the correct term for this is "Genetics?" Try "Human Behavior."

Personally, I don't think you have a scientific clue about what it is you are trying to talk about.

So, don't assume you know someone when you don't that someone at all.

i hear you saying that you're all pissed of because i dared to contradict you.

you were the one that brought up genetics. i merely agreed that if your statement that you have no desire to fuck your friends was true, then yes, you would be flawed. our genetics include the desire to procreate, or they end when we die. the monogamy we practice is a social construct. i don't pretend to know you. i don't really care to, if you are as stupid and dishonest as you sound, either.

[Madman]

Originally Posted by lumberjim

i hear you saying that you're all pissed of because i dared to contradict you.

you were the one that brought up genetics. i merely agreed that if your statement that you have no desire to fuck your friends was true, then yes, you would be flawed. our genetics include the desire to procreate, or they end when we die. the monogamy we practice is a social construct. i don't pretend to know you. i don't really care to, if you are as stupid and dishonest as you sound, either.

Pissed off? I wasn't pissed. Contradict? Jim, I don't care if you agree or disagree with me. Why? Easy. I don't have to live with you.

I guess if it were me and one, two, three... ten... thirty women in the world then I would probably have a hayday with all my "friends." Since that is not the case. You can fornicate with all the "friends" your desire. Do I want to have any more kids? No. Why? They become teenagers.

This is why I love forums on the Internet. An endless supply of theoretical philosophies to pass from one person to the next. What the hell, if it sounds good - go for it.

Guess I'll go have sex with my neighbors wife. Hmmm, should I ask her first?

Well, back to lurking.