To try to give you a kid's perspective since i dont have a married one:
My dad is endlessly cranky. My mom still puts up with it and makes excuses for him. To me it just makes me sick and has driven me away from both of them. He's not physically abusive, and I'm not sure I would call him emotionally abusive but it's pisses me off how he treats her sometimes. Not to mention he does the same damn thing to me. I don't really want them to divorce, but I do wish that I didn't have to deal with him all the time and could just see my mom. That's awful I know. Your kids might have similar feelings about your situation, but then again I'm older.
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