Cheating even though you are happy..... - Page 3

Cicero · 08-22-2009, 09:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by classicman

Do you send it three times just to make sure they got it? :p

Why no I don't!

Why no I don't!

Why no I don't!

TheMercenary · 08-22-2009, 10:08 PM

ThatGuy, just ask her if she is interested in a threesome and uncomplicate things.

Shawnee123 · 08-22-2009, 10:14 PM

There sure are some confused people here.

ThatGuy · 08-23-2009, 12:07 PM

That's one way to look at it. Or I do ask for it they both accept and then it gets really fucking complicated.

Pooka · 08-23-2009, 02:13 PM

Unless you are in an open marriage (and the wife is aware that the marriage is open to others) end the marriage BEFORE you cheat.

Just for a moment... Ask yourself what your wife would think if she stumbled upon this conversation. Would she feel that you have the respect and love for her that she thought you did or would she be shocked and deeply hurt that you'd even entertain this line of thought.

As a married woman myself... I can tell you that if I was your wife... I'd already feel betrayed by you... there is a big difference between flirting, fantasy and contemplating bringing it into the reality... that is the line you don't cross if you plan to stay in a happy marriage. You've already crossed that line my friend... which says... no matter how happy you claim to be ... you aren't being honest with yourself about that... and you definitly aren't being honest with your wife.

Shawnee123 · 08-23-2009, 07:47 PM

Raise your hand if you think ThatGuy IS that guy, despite his protesting said title and way of life, and is completely full of shit.

Count one right here.

xoxoxoBruce · 08-23-2009, 08:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pooka

As a married woman myself... I can tell you that if I was your wife... I'd already feel betrayed by you... there is a big difference between flirting, fantasy and contemplating bringing it into the reality... that is the line you don't cross if you plan to stay in a happy marriage.

Contemplating bringing it into the reality is part of the fantasy.

Quote:

You've already crossed that line my friend... which says... no matter how happy you claim to be ... you aren't being honest with yourself about that... and you definitly aren't being honest with your wife.

Sure, tell her this chick is propositioning him and she'll either:
1- Freak out, stir up shit and probably get him fired, or
2- somehow twist it around so it's his fault, and throw it in his face during every argument, forever.

Maybe both.

Shawnee123 · 08-23-2009, 08:08 PM

Aww, poor that. If he wants doesn't want to play with the big dogs, he should stay on the porch and enjoy it or quit his fucking salivating and barking.

Really, does he need to be every cliche in the book? Does his wife need be?

monster · 08-23-2009, 08:13 PM

Shawnee123 · 08-23-2009, 08:16 PM

HA!

Spexxvet · 08-23-2009, 08:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shawnee123

Raise your hand if you think ThatGuy IS that guy, despite his protesting said title and way of life, and is completely full of shit.

Count one right here.

Do you think he's a sock puppet for a regular here?

jinx · 08-23-2009, 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce

Sure, tell her this chick is propositioning him and she'll either:
1- Freak out, stir up shit and probably get him fired, or
2- somehow twist it around so it's his fault, and throw it in his face during every argument, forever.

Maybe both.

You've either;
1. met his wife
2. or you just have a really low opinion of women in general.

monster · 08-23-2009, 08:21 PM

the latter is my vote

xoxoxoBruce · 08-23-2009, 08:26 PM

I've had a lot of experience watching married couples interact, and seen it happen over and over.

Shawnee123 · 08-23-2009, 08:31 PM

You should interact with actual real human married couples. Again, cliche.

Sure, good luck finding it, but it's evident in many people I know: mutual respect and consideration.

08-22-2009, 10:08 PM	#32
TheMercenary “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia Posts: 21,393	ThatGuy, just ask her if she is interested in a threesome and uncomplicate things. __________________ Anyone but the this most fuked up President in History in 2012!

08-22-2009, 10:14 PM	#33
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	There sure are some confused people here. __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-23-2009, 12:07 PM	#34
ThatGuy Keeper of the Decorum Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Florida Posts: 58	That's one way to look at it. Or I do ask for it they both accept and then it gets really fucking complicated. __________________ What would Scooby Do?????

08-23-2009, 07:47 PM	#36
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	Raise your hand if you think ThatGuy IS that guy, despite his protesting said title and way of life, and is completely full of shit. Count one right here. __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-23-2009, 08:08 PM	#38
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	Aww, poor that. If he wants doesn't want to play with the big dogs, he should stay on the porch and enjoy it or quit his fucking salivating and barking. Really, does he need to be every cliche in the book? Does his wife need be? __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-23-2009, 02:13 PM	#35
Pooka Your Invisible Rabbit Friend Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Betwixt and Between Posts: 528	Unless you are in an open marriage (and the wife is aware that the marriage is open to others) end the marriage BEFORE you cheat. Just for a moment... Ask yourself what your wife would think if she stumbled upon this conversation. Would she feel that you have the respect and love for her that she thought you did or would she be shocked and deeply hurt that you'd even entertain this line of thought. As a married woman myself... I can tell you that if I was your wife... I'd already feel betrayed by you... there is a big difference between flirting, fantasy and contemplating bringing it into the reality... that is the line you don't cross if you plan to stay in a happy marriage. You've already crossed that line my friend... which says... no matter how happy you claim to be ... you aren't being honest with yourself about that... and you definitly aren't being honest with your wife.

08-23-2009, 08:13 PM	#39
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	__________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

08-23-2009, 08:16 PM	#40
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	HA! __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-23-2009, 08:21 PM	#43
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	the latter is my vote __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

08-23-2009, 08:26 PM	#44
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I've had a lot of experience watching married couples interact, and seen it happen over and over. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

08-23-2009, 08:31 PM	#45
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	You should interact with actual real human married couples. Again, cliche. Sure, good luck finding it, but it's evident in many people I know: mutual respect and consideration. __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

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