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Originally Posted by Trilby

"It is What It is"

the Tao of Pooh.

all that. sounds dumb but it helps.

I like this, from Dune:

I must not fear.
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.
Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain.

Except I substitute "anger" for "fear".